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Hate B*tchy people!!!
I just need to vent this 
I have a 36 year old cousin who is getting married on an island in April...She has been engaged 3 times so far to 3 different guys and this one "we think" is actually happening. She's not the most pleasant person in the world but of course my brother and I are inviting her to our wedding b/c it proper. She comes to my brothers with her FI and begs to allow her 17 yr old son to come and my brother say Yeah...Well she shows up at his wedding, tells my brother then that her son decided to work and gives my brother $50. Now I know you can't be mad b/c some people just don't have the $ but all she does is brag about all the money she makes, she cost my brother extra b/c she wanted her son to come and then he doesn't.
Well to make her even more BITCHY, she's been posting on facebook about her wedding and she puts. "we are so excited that only our closest friends and family are coming" The thing is she only invited my mom's one sister and her kids!!!!!!! She never invited my family, and my other aunts family and keeps commenting on how she's excited only her closest family is coming......Of course I had to comment on it!! I'm just pissed that we are inviting her b/c it's the proper thing to do but she can pick and choose which family to invite...not that I would go to her wedding at this point but I hate that we have to be all nice and do the right thing and she can be the way she is and it's ok b/c that's her.
I would so love to not invite her!!!
Re: Hate B*tchy people!!!
I might just forget to mail her invite out. Ooops, it got lost in the mail and because I hadn't heard from you I assumed you weren't coming and invited someone else. Sorry...no room for you!
muahahahaha....
I think Karma always kicks her in the ass....that's why she's never offically gotten married yet and this is her 3rd engagment
I think the guys figure her out before they marry her and run!
That is nuts! Although, I would feel slighted by not being invited to her destination wedding and be inclined to not invite her to mine, do you reeaaallly want to go to hers?? Maybe it is for the best.
That would bother me, too.
People amaze me!! Why would someone think they could just bring their kid to a wedding when they weren't invited.
I responded to my cousins facebook post that said "we are so excited that just our close family and friends are coming" as follows ...."Oh, so I see we weren't invited...should we only be inviting "close" family b/c if so I have to go back over my list a cut a person or two" AHH, I hate even responding but she keeps posting it so she was asking for it!
lilylow:
I'll let you know!
And no I would't of gone anyway but I think it's just the point and then how she throws in everyones face. The best thing is she told her mom she WANTS and bridal shower and she thinks we are suppose to come to that. I refuse to go..I wasn't invited to the wedding so I'm not going to her shower
She doesn't bother me but I feel bad for my mom b/c it's her godchild and my mom went above and behind the 1st time she got married and she didn't even ask my parents to go. I think she's got issues that all her younger cousins are getting married before her...the only aunt she invited is the one that has unmarried and unengaged kids. Everytime one of us got engaged she would say "Oh you guys are so young, it never works out when you get married that young" Me and my cousin are 28 and my brother was 30!!