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Just curious...WWYD?

Before I met the hubby (over 6 years ago) I dated a guy on and off for a few years. We were definitely more off than on due to him being, how do I put this, selfish! Not that I didn't think he liked me, but he was just completely wrapped up in himself and his own life. Anyway, after DH and I were dating a few months I cut ties completely with this guy because he knew I was dating my hubby at the time and would continuously ask me out. Hello? What part of "I'm dating someone exclusively" didn't ya get? I had no problem being friends with him, but he just didn't respect that so I had to end the "friendship" (for a lack of a better description). So, through the years he would email me (he would have called, but I changed my # at some point, so he couldn't reach me that way anymore) and I would just ignore his emails. After 6 years of somebody ignoring you, don't you think you'd give up? lol Apparently not this guy. I mean, I know I'm great and all, but come on, give up already! lol Well, he emailed me again today "are you ok? married? kids?". I would love to write back and tell him to get a life and all, but that will only spark more emails from him. What would you do? Reply? Ignore? Block his email address? (which he'll only email me from another one) Or change mine? Which I've had for like 10 years? I know it's not a major dillema here, but I would just like some feed back. Thanks ladies...

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Re: Just curious...WWYD?

  • ooh, 1 more thing. I got a Friend request from another ex on FB today as well. LOL I hear there's a full moon tonight. Anyway, accept or ignore?
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  • Delete Delete Delete, Ignore ignore ignore and then block when possible.
  • just ignore!
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  • I say block him as spam. That way his email go directly in the spam folder and you can delete them from there. This also won't alert him that you aren't receiving his email which may prompt him to use another address. I think you are right that responding will only encourage him. As to the fb person, ignore! You are a popular one!!
  • Ooh you, irresistible you! LOL That guy is missing the water now that the well has run dry. His loss!

    I would ignore his emails and pray that he meets someone nice so he can give his 'all' to her and leave you alone. I hate stuff like that though, why can't he just let bygones be bygones?! Some guys!!


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  • I like Topanga's suggestion for kicking him into the spam box.  And definitely block him on FB.  No need if you don't want to converse with him.  I have a few people blocks just to avoid potentially unwanted drama.
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    I like Topanga's suggestion for kicking him into the spam box.  And definitely block him on FB.  No need if you don't want to converse with him.  I have a few people blocks just to avoid potentially unwanted drama.

    Yup, I'm with you guys, spam. And ignore the FB guy too.  And seriously, how popular are you! Cool

  • Like I mentioned earlier...there was a FULL moon yesterday...I definitely think that had something to do with it. lol

    I definitely will continue to ignore the email guy and will put his email address in the spam file (once I figure that out lol) and will ignore the FB one as well. Some guys just can't take a hint...even if it's going on for 6 years...SHEESH! Thanks for the input ladies. :)

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  • Block him. If he mails from a different address, block him again.  If eventually it gets to be too much, then change your address. I know it's inconvenient but it seems that any attention you give him (even if it is to tell him to leave you alone) makes him bolder.
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