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What would you do?
I posted a while back about my cousin who is 36 who is getting married away and decided to only invite my one aunt and her kids and nobody else...her excuse was she could only invite 10 (apparently she owns the island 
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Anyway...my mom was pissed and made it knows....my cousin has been nothing but a b*tch her entire life and now that she's happy everyone is suppose to be all happy for her and what not but whenever one of us got engaged she would comment on how we were too young and would end up divorced (remind you I'll be almost 29 when I'm married)
Well she decided to send a nasty email to my mom ...the email was pretty much her trying to make everyone feel bad for her and her situation and what not....Oh and I forgot to mention that my mom was pissed b/c she attended my SIL shower and sat up front and literally whispered back and forth with my other cousin (hand covering her mouth and all) talking about everbody.
Well at the end of the email she asked not to be invited to any family events...so do I still invite her to my wedding and my sisters shower and leave it up to her? I'm a pissed at her but I don't want to do the wrong thing...so do I invite or not?
Re: What would you do?
i agree. kill 'em with kindness
I would invite her. I was in a similar situation. In the end it will be her choice, and she will look like a total fool for not sharing your special moment.
I hope this helps.
Yup. I agree, too.
Haha, the best is that this is her 3rd engagment and she also got pregnant at 16...so she really has nerve to judge people