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Facebook Drama
This is so ridiculous I don't even know why I'm posting. I have a friend, we will call her A. She is dating B. They started dating about 4-5 weeks ago. B is from my hometown but I didn't know him because he is younger than me. B used to date C. C is also a friend of mine.
Backstory. C told me FOREVER ago that she and B broke up (we're talking 12 to 18 months ago). C told me more recently that she and B were still friends only and hung out and that she wished he would move on.
A and B went to the game with MH and I this past weekend. This is when I met B for the VERY first time. Keep in mind that C and I have been friends for 4 or 5 years and she never once introduced us while they were dating (which I THOUGHT was for only about three months). I posted pics of A, B, MH and I at the game on my facebook.
C saw them. Texted me saying she had a question but never asked the question. This morning I discover that C has deleted me as a friend on her facebook. I inquire with A and B.
B tells me that he and C dated for three YEARS(!!!!) and that they broke up JUNE. C never told me they were dating for those three years. Yet, she's now mad at me because B is dating A and I am friends with A. Seriously? I had absolutely nothing to do with A and B dating - B sought out A. He asked her out the first time. And he knew nothing of A and I being friends when he did so. He found out later that his ex-girlfriend C's friend M was actually one of A's best friends.
It seems that C thinks this was all a big conspiracy between B and me to hurt her. So apparently I conspired with someone who I had never even met or spoke to to hurt a friend because I'm like that. Yup, that is SOOO me.
Anyway if you made it through all of that way to go. I would like to fix my friendship with C, but I have no idea what to do at this point. Any suggestions or should I just let it go?
Re: Facebook Drama
IF you can play dumb. Some of us don't have to act.
Honestly, I think I'd try and re-add her as a friend and also play the dumb route like "FB is acting up... I think it deleted some of my friends! What did you want to ask me last week?"
Good luck. Sounds like C wasn't actually over B.. kind of like she was ashamed/afraid to introduce him around to her friends, but isn't over him enough to see him with someone else.