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Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
now this is messed up: XP from another board
http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/21949491.aspx
i feel bad for this girl.....i would just die if i had to ask for money. or if i had no idea where the money was going. her DH is a jerk!
(still dont know how to make it clicky)
Re: now this is messed up: XP from another board
http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/21949491.aspx
There ya go.
James and I keep separate accounts, it just works better for us. I usually don't use my account much, there's not much in it, but if I go down to my parents or something he can put money in it if I find something I want to buy. We use his checking account for paying bills, period. Everything else is cash. We use cash for groceries, dining out, anything we buy. And we don't do credit cards at all. Helps us maintain our budget much easier.
That said, I do have to get money from him since I don't work, but he normally does not make me have to ask. Before leaving for work every day he'll leave me some money and if I need more, I just go get some from him. But it would be a$$holish if he made me ask or kept things private.
That is awful. Her problems go way deeper than money. You can't just not know how things in your life get done or get paid for. That was fine when you were 10, but not as an adult. I can certainly see why she has some major issues and anger directed at her husband.
Not ok. Just not ok.
Agreed.
if he's keeping stuff secret like that, then he probably IS hiding stuff! I couldn't be with a controlling person, I've got too much of a temper!
crazy.
Like PP'ers said, their problems go WAY beyond the financial!