I just need to vent. . . (long)

kaleyandjason · September 2009

I know it is dead around here, but my DH is at work and I really need to get this out.

My freshman year of college my guy friend from high school started dating this girl. We all hung out together and the girl and I became the best of friends! We were very close for the next year and a half. Her and the guy broke up, but that didn't affect us.

I ended up moving home right before the start of sophomore year. But, we still kept in touch. I went to stay with her and go to a football game and go out. Well, I ended up getting sick before the game and wanted to go home. I told her I couldn't stay and didn't feel up for it. She got mad. I mean beyond p*ssed at me. She didn't talk to me for months probably. Eventually she semi - got over it. She finally started talking to me again. At that time, she told me I was a horrible friend, and I never should have left her like that. Mind you, I left her at HER house (where her and her mother lived). In HER hometown. With HER boyfriend. She made me feel horrible for something that was not that big of a deal.

Anyway, she just sent me a message on FB and started chatting it up. She is a senior in nursing school and just got engaged. She always talks down to me and makes me feel like sh*t because I am a business major. She acts like I am an idiot for getting married and purchasing a house right now. I think it is a good thing that I am already in the financial position to purchase a house. This is where I want to live for a while. If she doesn't like that she should have just not even sent me a message. I told her I had a job interview Monday at a bank. And she said "Oh well, I guess that is better than the food service industry forever". Gah. She is just very condescending now!

Needless to say, I deleted her ass right after she got offline. I do not need someone in my life who makes me feel like poo.

Thanks for letting me vent a little!

nanner29 · September 2009

Holy shiz, that is aweful! I hate people that think that they are better than you and make you feel like crap all the time. I was in a similar position and know how you feel. I am glad you deleted her, you don't need to take that!