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Am I the only one going back and reading old posts?

The ones where Jewels either posted or responded? I don't know why as it is so heartbreaking...and maybe it's bad because I won't accept it. But I can't help it.

I was just reading the TTTC success story post and she wrote about her m/c and how heartbreaking it was for her and a part of me thought that although she isn't going to get to be in Gaby's life, she'll get to meet her first baby.

Re: Am I the only one going back and reading old posts?

  • No, I am too, and her fb, and all her texts to me yesterday. Every time I see the last one she sent i break down. She said "Pain free finally."
  • I was thinking of reading previous posts too.  I can't stop thinking about her.  I've been doing house stuff to try to keep my mind occupied, but then I keep checking her FB and on here to see if there is any news.  I am so heartbroken.
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  • Irma, that is so sad.

    Yes, I've been reading her old posts.  I just very recently figured out that she was posting under a new name, probably because I haven't been around much.  I remember when she was sushi, and before that, when she was PhilsFutureWife.  I actually remember how the first time I found the Knot IE board, her post the night before her wedding was the first one I ever saw.  The title of it was "Tomorrow I will be a wife."

    This is so sad.  I can't stand it. 

  • Nope, I've been doing the same.
  • imagekatt3233:
    I was thinking of reading previous posts too.  I can't stop thinking about her.  I've been doing house stuff to try to keep my mind occupied, but then I keep checking her FB and on here to see if there is any news.  I am so heartbroken.
    Me too- the house is gonna be cleaner than its been in a while.

    I've been going over FB and all of the previous nest posts and looking at pictures.. I think I need to buy more tissues. 

    Don't worry about tomorrow. After all, today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday. Take each day as it comes...one at a time. Midnight Baking Adventures Blog
  • Me too. I don't even know why...
  • You know what I think is weird? If you click on a user name, it will take you to their bio, and list all of their past post.

    If you do it w/J name, nothing comes up.

  • imagemzjackson:

    You know what I think is weird? If you click on a user name, it will take you to their bio, and list all of their past post.

    If you do it w/J name, nothing comes up.

    I tried that earlier and had the same thing happen- so weird, I thought my computer was freaking out.

    Don't worry about tomorrow. After all, today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday. Take each day as it comes...one at a time. Midnight Baking Adventures Blog
  • I've been doing it to.  I just can't believe how sudden and how very real this is...
  • Brandy-I think she must have chose to keep everything private.

  • I haven't been reading the old posts, but I've ure as heck been thinking about them. Esp one of the last ones - asking for any last minute advice. We all were excited to be moms, but she was just so over the moon, crazy happy.
  • I went back through my old pics this morning and found the one of Jewels and Brandy from the first GTG I went to. I started crying and then posted it on FB. Remember at the GTG at Lori's when she had the cute pink dress on. She was so cute pregnant. And she had the tastey lumpia...haha! Lumpia!
  • imageJENNB1101:
    I went back through my old pics this morning and found the one of Jewels and Brandy from the first GTG I went to. I started crying and then posted it on FB. Remember at the GTG at Lori's when she had the cute pink dress on. She was so cute pregnant. And she had the tastey lumpia...haha! Lumpia!

    I was looking at the pics from the gtg at Lori's too. She looked so cute in that pink dress. I don't eat pork, but I ate the lumpia...so good.

  • I started to re read but it made me cry too much. I think from now on every GTG we should have lumpia or sushi so that she will always be there
  • Ok I must have missed it at the GTG and I have always wondered - what's up with sushi and lumpia?
  • imageBeckiC:
    Ok I must have missed it at the GTG and I have always wondered - what's up with sushi and lumpia?

    She was Filipino, her husband is Japanese...foods to represent their cultures.

  • I believe it was her and her husband. One was Japanese and the other was phillipino
  • imagekatdcliff:
    I started to re read but it made me cry too much. I think from now on every GTG we should have lumpia or sushi so that she will always be there

    Agreed! There is a filipino restaurant in Murrieta right next to the 24 hour fitness- I can always get it there.

    Don't worry about tomorrow. After all, today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday. Take each day as it comes...one at a time. Midnight Baking Adventures Blog
  • imagekatdcliff:
    I started to re read but it made me cry too much. I think from now on every GTG we should have lumpia or sushi so that she will always be there

    I was thinking this same thing.

    I haven't been able to go back and read her posts. Too hard, but I keep thinking about her Fess up Friday where she talked about being nervous about the labor. Sad

    H and I went to try and look at stuff for the new house, but I couldn't even think so we just came home.

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