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I feel so dirty...

I just discovered (overheard a conversation I wasn't supposed to) that some of my 13 year old male students a) think I'm hot and b) erm... have made me the center of their sexual fantasies.

I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO grossed out right now and I don't even know what to do. Ew. Ew. Ew. I don't even want to think about it. Like, I don't dress inappropriately, I'm formal enough for the classroom... I just want this to stop.

Shudder.

Re: I feel so dirty...

  • hot.for.teacher.  haha that is too funny, okay maybe not for you.  i would take it as a compliment but it would make me feel a little strange too Embarrassed
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  • okay just looked at your wedding pics...you're a hottie, of course they are gonna love you!  btw, your pics are GORGEOUS!!!!!
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  • ewww. i would feel the same way too
  • LOL this is amusing because it's not happening to me. Although, also this:

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    i would take it as a compliment but it would make me feel a little strange too Embarrassed

    Now let me just say, I KNOW that it's totally inappropriate that they view you that way (even if they are little hornbags at that age), but at the same time I'd have a weensy feeling of "woohoo! I've still got it!" but that's probably just because my flimsy ego needs constant stroking. Stick out tongue And I can totally understand why you feel skeeved out!

  • Unfortunately that's what boys do at all ages! It sucks that they are your students but I'm sure there's nothing you are wearing or saying to make them feel this way. Boys will be boys!
  • One of my 16 year olds was crushing on me last year, but he was super respectful about it... 13 year olds just feel like objectifing you. =/ I wanna smack them upside the head.
  • I hear ya... been there.  Although, I was never really told about it, but sometimes you can just tell.  And for the record, I don't teach anymore, but I can't stand the song "hot for teacher". 

    As long as they don't bring it up in class, just try to ignore it.  It's hard to do though, because at 13, they are so inappropriate with the things they say anyway!

  • That is funny!  One of my friends became a high school math teacher straight from college and she had found out that some of her students had written a play for their drama class called "Hot Math Teacher"!  The drama teacher had brought it to her attention during lunch one day and you can't help but laugh when you hear about that. ;)  Boys are so dumb at that age, just ignore it unless they start becoming innappropriate ;)

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  • LOL!  Too funny.  It's totally normal.  I remember having the hots for our computer/math teacher in 8th grade.
  • Haha well, can't blame them since you are really pretty but I guess it's a lil disturbing about the fantasies part =P But yeah, the same thing happened to me before when I was TAing for some classes in the past but it's pretty harmless so I wouldn't worry about it too much--they'll grow out of it and start focusing on girls in their age range once those girls get older themsleves =)
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  • LMAO...that's some funny stuff. But you are hot. I know you don't want to be the center of their 13YO fantasies That it too funny.
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  • lol...worry about it when they don't have crushes on you-boys will be boys

  • Since it's Halloween, you should buy one of the really ugly, kinky black and grey wigs.  Cut out 2 small strips.  Place one in each armpit.  Wear something that has loose sleeves and wave an arm (Julia Roberts comes to mind).  That should solve the problem.
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  • imageSurfinbride:
    Since it's Halloween, you should buy one of the really ugly, kinky black and grey wigs.  Cut out 2 small strips.  Place one in each armpit.  Wear something that has loose sleeves and wave an arm (Julia Roberts comes to mind).  That should solve the problem.

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