.....my dumb SIL (dh sister) apparently has decided that she and her H are no longer compatible because, well, in her words "we have grown apart and he doesnt want to do stuff with me, and i want to go out dancing and go to clubs and he doesnt want to because he has to get up early in the mornings to take orders for his job"
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seriously? she is 36!!! grow the Fvck up! my H thinks she is a total moron for this. she is 36, a wife and a mother. she has resonsibilities!! so she moved out of her house and moved in with her parents...and did i mention she moved by herself! not taking her child!
AND she almost set IL house on fire the other day....no joke. apparently in the laundry room. MIL has an extra stove/oven in there and doesnt use the stove but uses the over, so she had stuff stacked on top of the stove and SIL went in there and apparently hit one of the knobs for the burners and didnt notice until a little while later, the laundry room was full of smoke....wow....just wow.
Re: oh my dear Lord, my SIL left her H and now lives with her parents.....
oh Shoe, i agree, i guess i just can't imagine myself leaving my H and my kids....
Cissy, that is what it seems to me....but the thing is, she had her party time, dating time all before she chose to get married and have a kid..... my dad thinks she probably has a man on the side! ha!
How old is her kid? Hopefully young enough to be clueless about the whole thing. When you have a baby, then selfish time is over.
Leaving the kid behind with the dad probably is the best thing, but it's tough to imagine actually doing it. I really hope all of this blows over soon and they can work it out.