My husband is pissed with me.

kaesha · October 2009

Two weeks ago, we were supposed to get together with some of his former co-workers, but only one could make it, so we mutually agreed to reschedule - then last week, we were cancelled on.

This week, everything was up in the air, when this morning they said they could do tonight... and I really don't want to do it. I'm exhausted, I have a headache and the gum around a back tooth is inflamed and bleeding. On top of that, I haven't showered today and I've been dealing with sugar infused students and I've been almost having a nervous breakdown all week.

Anyway, he's pissed off with me (like, ignoring my emails and giving me the cold shoulder) and I just cannot deal with it right now. =( I get that I'm not the most consistent person, and that it can be frustrating for him. I just wish he'd stop ignoring me. Makes me want to stay at work late (something I already have to do) and be childish and not go home.

I feel like kid who knows they've done something wrong and doesn't want to face the consequences.

husky422 · October 2009

lol @ ignoring your emails...i do that to dh all the time...but he pisses me off regularly

i'll give you the flip side...sometimes i have no desire to go do something but after we go out, i'm usually glad we did.

why can't he go meet them without you? my dh is a total dud about going out with my friends and doing things so i just leave him behind...life's too short to be a dud

kaesha · October 2009

I told him to go meet up with them, but now, it's just this one girl who'll be there and he thought it would be awkward.

MrsNJSwimmer · October 2009

kaesha:
I told him to go meet up with them, but now, it's just this one girl who'll be there and he thought it would be awkward.

Sounds like it's time to reschedule again!

mrspresley · October 2009

i'm sorry, that sucks. i don't know why he is being so childish...but i think being childish in return isn't going to help anything. i think you should reschedule and tell him that they shouldn't expect much when they tell you the day of they want to do something. you usually need to give people at least 48 hrs notice if you really want to hang out.

redshoegirl · October 2009

mrspresley:
i'm sorry, that sucks. i don't know why he is being so childish...but i think being childish in return isn't going to help anything. i think you should reschedule and tell him that they shouldn't expect much when they tell you the day of they want to do something. you usually need to give people at least 48 hrs notice if you really want to hang out.

Yes I like this advice. Frankly, I'm somewhat change adverse, so I HATE last minute plans, even if they don't actually impact at all on anything I was planning on doing (it's stupid I know, but even if I was just going to sit around contemplating my belly button [or what's left of it these days], I don't want to suddenly go do something else). I agree that it's reasonable to at least have a day or two notice before making plans to hang out with people.

kaesha · November 2009

I know, right? At least I'm aware that my initial impulses are often childish!! I hate this, "maybe we have plans for Friday". Either we do, or we don't, and I'm not waiting around all morning to figure it out. Yeesh.

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