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DH drama, from FFF

OK, I posted this on the FFF thread, but maybe I do need some feedback. Am I overreacting? Is he trying to tell me he's not ready, even though he was the one who wanted to start earlier originally? Here's what happened:

I went to the OB to talk about going off the pill because we've decided we will TTC in the new year. She tells me to stop after tha next pack and start taking the vitamins, etc. He knew about this appointment and wanted me to tell him how it went, but when I called and told him about it, his reaction was less-than-enthusiastic. Of course, this is confusing and makes me a bit upset, because now I think he's chaning his mind about having babies in the next 6 months, which is what we talked about. turns out, he was only concerned about getting PG too early and what effect the pill in my system would have (which is none, by the way), but he couldn't say that because there was someone in his office at the time. Why didn't he just tell me he had someone in his office instead of freaking me out like that!? Arghhh.

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After 22 cycles and 4 failed IUIs, Serafina joined our family through IVF/ICSI, born 8.28.12
Surprise! The Sequel is due 12.8.14!

Re: DH drama, from FFF

  • TTC is a very emotional time for both people.  Sit down and talk with your DH, ask him realisticly when he wants to have children.  Let him know that TTC doesn't always happen in the first month.  See what he is really thinking and feeling before you get yourself all worked up about this.  You will be ok.  DH and I will be TTC shortly here too.  I am the one scared to death not him.  I have two children ages 10 & 6, that is a big gap in ages of oldest to youngest once we have a child.  BUT we both know how eachother feels because we talked.  So talk to him.  Not on the phone, face to face, privately.
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  • We already talked at great length and decided on the timeline together. What bothers me is that he seemed like he was changing his tune once the appointment came around. We plan to talk more tonight (communication is definitely one of our strong suits!), so hopefully we can sort it all out.
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    After 22 cycles and 4 failed IUIs, Serafina joined our family through IVF/ICSI, born 8.28.12
    Surprise! The Sequel is due 12.8.14!

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