Upstate NY Nesties
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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You may remember a while back I posted about a frienemy that I was trying to cut ties with. About a month ago, we had an argument and she was very insulting to me and my DH. I decided after that to end the friendship and all contact with her. I am very glad to have her out of my life, but I do work with her bf at my summer job. I will still see her in the future, and I will be cordial as my bar tending job requires, but I have NO desire to be her friend again. Fast forward to today...she IMs me and wants to be friends again. I didn't respond bc I do not want to be, nor do I want to have another fight with her when I tell her that I don't want to talk. I am guessing the reason behind her IM is that she only has a handful of friends, but she should have thought about that before she called my DH an a$$, which he SOOO isn't. Okay, vent over. I just really needed to get that off my chest. I know it's probably childish, but I have had enough. Nobody talks about my baby that way!

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lol! Good for you for sticking up for what makes you feel best.
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you did the right thing- no need wasting energy on someone who obvs is a drain..
Go girl!
I'm sorry you have to still deal with her. You def. did the right thing by not responding, if she is going to talk smack about your husband she doesn't deserve your time.
Some people are just not worth the time and effort it takes to deal with thier drama. I've had people in my life like this before and while I occasionally wonder what it might have been like if things were different, I know that cutting ties was the best thing for ME. Good luck and stay strong!
P.s - this is my first post!!