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Newly Married and dealing with drama!
Hey everyone! My hubby and I were married November 13, 2009. We went on our honeymoon and when we got back, things have been crazy! Our relationship is wonderful, but several people have decided to make it their personal mission to try and break up our marriage. They have been calling, tweeting, emailing, you name it, saying horrible things about us. For example, someone said this... "if she is pregnant or if she gets pregnant, I want to kick her in the stomach!" Seriously, what kind of person says that type of thing? We keep blowing it off, but it's starting to really aggravate us, especially since it's turning threatening in nature! NOTHING is going to break up our marriage, thats for life. Why can't people just be happy for us, instead of jealous? I guess I am just looking for advise and support. Has anyone had to deal with the jealousy of others after getting married? Is this a common occurance? How should we handle the violent threats? I am open for any advise. Also, we are new here and looking for new friends, obviously! Nice to meet everyone and be a part of a community where we can relate to others like us!
Re: Newly Married and dealing with drama!
I don't do drama well. Sorry. I will let the other ladies handle up on this.
Um, hello. Welcome to the board?
People will always have something to say. You can't change them, you can only change how you react to them. The best advice I can give is to just let it roll. As long as you know that your marriage is strong, that's all that matters.
I can assure you that no one here is anything like you.
How did lil ole BR board luck up and get a national-board-worthy newb?!
This is legal advice. Circa 2011
This is legal advice. Circa 2011
Stalker.
I am both shocked and proud that you knew that acronym, babe.
I am 29 and he is 27, but these people are considerably younger (23-25). I am just ignoring it. I have better things to do with my time.
I have no idea what you are talking about!
Precisely. How about you lurk a little, introduce yourself to the board, and make a few posts before you come out sounding like an immature idiot? Kthxbai.
Wow! That's a little harsh!