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Just hung up on H - vent

I am just so frustrated. He still lives/works in BR and comes in one night a week and the weekends. So I make plans on the weekends. We were supposed to go get a Christmas tree tomorrow (we were going to go to the cut-your-own place), so I needed a couple of hours. We do this ever year, and it's kind of like our tradition. Then we come home and set it up and decorate and whatnot. We don't ever spend time together except on the weekends, so what does he do?- He schedules something mid-day Saturday and mid-day Sunday. I just don't understand why these thing HAVE to be scheduled when they are, and he is annoyed with me because I keep asking for a reason. I am just super annoy and have to vent.
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Re: Just hung up on H - vent

  • I'm sorry, that really sucks. I'd be upset too. Especially since you can only see him on the weekends. 

    Sometimes when MH and I argue over the phone like that and we hang up he usually calls me back and changes his mind. I hope your DH will too. 

    ::hugs::

  • Aww that sucks, hopefully he will come to his senses!
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  • Totally justified rant, IMO.  I hate when MH gets mad b/c I'm asking for a valid explanation to something.  It makes me want to throw breakable items at his head.

    I hope you guys can work something out for the weekend.  I can imagine it must be really hard being apart from each other all the time like that.

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    Totally justified rant, IMO.  I hate when MH gets mad b/c I'm asking for a valid explanation to something.  It makes me want to throw breakable items at his head.

    I hope you guys can work something out for the weekend.  I can imagine it must be really hard being apart from each other all the time like that.

    You totally nailed it!

    Belle, he called back, and didn't change his mind. He is being stubborn and thinks he is right. I am super annoyed and I am not going to give in either. If I were able to this year, I would cut the damn tree down by myself and let him keep his stupid little plans. 

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  • imageAligator28:
    imageShoeFanatic614:

    Totally justified rant, IMO.  I hate when MH gets mad b/c I'm asking for a valid explanation to something.  It makes me want to throw breakable items at his head.

    I hope you guys can work something out for the weekend.  I can imagine it must be really hard being apart from each other all the time like that.

    You totally nailed it!

    Belle, he called back, and didn't change his mind. He is being stubborn and thinks he is right. I am super annoyed and I am not going to give in either. If I were able to this year, I would cut the damn tree down by myself and let him keep his stupid little plans. 

    Ok, I like this plan.  Totally something I would do.  I'm sure if you show up and tell them you're pg, someone will help you out!

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  • You know, I may think about doing that. And I will give that person a nice fat tip, haha
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  • When I want DH to do something at that minute and he's into other things like the TV, I just go act like I'm doing it, fake grunting sounds and all. He fusses, "don't do it. I'm coming" and actually does it then for sake of the babe. Not that i'd actually do it, but it gets him off his arse! Is this bad? He hasn't caught on yet! Maybe try something similar?
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  • imageAligator28:
    You know, I may think about doing that. And I will give that person a nice fat tip, haha

    This is an excellent plan!

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    When I want DH to do something at that minute and he's into other things like the TV, I just go act like I'm doing it, fake grunting sounds and all. He fusses, "don't do it. I'm coming" and actually does it then for sake of the babe. Not that i'd actually do it, but it gets him off his arse! Is this bad? He hasn't caught on yet! Maybe try something similar?

    I just let him know I may go by myself. We'll see... 

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  • Just got an "I'm sorry I got upset" text. 

    He is going to rework the other thing.

    One point for Ali 

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  • imageAligator28:

    Just got an "I'm sorry I got upset" text. 

    He is going to rework the other thing.

    One point for Ali 

    LOL!  Yes

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  • imageAligator28:

    Just got an "I'm sorry I got upset" text. 

    He is going to rework the other thing.

    One point for Ali 

    LOL good for you!

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