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Re: Is this a new trend I don't know about?

  • Confused

    guao...Attention Whore much?

  • It must be, I've seen a few of these videos now. I think it's a cute idea, when we get pregnant I think we might do one. I want to wait until the day I give birth to find out if we have a boy or girl, but M said he can't wait that long so I think this would be something fun to do instead :)
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  • This is what we plan to do.  Probably not with so many people whoopin it up but something similar.  I don't think its AWish at all if you ask me but whatever dills your pickle.  Personally, I think it's less because you can tell everyone all at once and noone feels left out as far as who knew first blah blah blah.  I'd rather do something like this than have 15 people lookin' at my ute at the gender reveal u/s like some people do.  Noone else needs to see my babies vag/pen.
  • It just seems like an extra party to me.  There's already a baby shower. And then the come and see the baby gtg's.

    But...who am I to turn down additional reasons to party???  (I'm cranky today.)

  • imageariajean:

    It just seems like an extra party to me.  There's already a baby shower. And then the come and see the baby gtg's.

    But...who am I to turn down additional reasons to party???  (I'm cranky today.)

    I likely wont have a shower and noone will see my baby.  ever.

    And like I said, mine would be much more low key and just for family.  A few people to dinner and a cake to cut after.  No big hooplah like this chick had.

  • I've been hearing of these recently, but not within my group of friends. I think it's kinda cute, but not for me.

  • I guess I don't understand how you keep it a secret from yourself . . . Do take the results to the bakery and have them take care of it?
  • imageJackandCassie:
    I guess I don't understand how you keep it a secret from yourself . . . Do take the results to the bakery and have them take care of it?
    Yes, you ask the u/s tech to place it in an envelope then take it to the bakery and ask them to put whatever color inside. 
  • I think its a bit much IMO.  I know the girls on the bump are always asking "cute" ways to announce the gender.  I just called people and told them what the tech said. Speaking of which we find out tomorrow if it's "still" a girl.  
  • Oh, ok. Well, it's not my style, but I guess there's nothing wrong with it . . . unless it becomes another expect event where lots of people are invited and presents are expected. Then it would seem tacky. But having a secret cake with friends and family? Hey, I'm always on team cake.
  • Yeah, the party, is a bit much to me too.  I dont want gifts, I dont want a party....i just dont want to have to hear about so and so knew first.  But who knows....we may never get a chance to do that.  We may accidentally find out in the room. =)
  • A ton of girls on the bump did it.  

     

    I considered it, because J couldn't come with to our BIG u/s appointment (my mom did) but it was a lot easier to just go to Target, get a baseball outfit and say "There's a 80% chance that our baby has a penis!" 

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  • I also just wanted to add that I loved finding out with just DH and I, and it will just be he and I tomorrow when we get the positive.  We are fairly private people (he proposed just the two of us, and I didn't want a wedding-he talked me into it, and there will only be the two of us in the delivery room).  That is a moment I just want to share with him.
  • imageKarrey31:
      But who knows....we may never get a chance to do that.  We may accidentally find out in the room. =)

    That's how my mom found out about my brother. She told the U/S tech that she didn't want to know, but when the U/S tech was doing the scan, the lady said, "Oooooh, I see it!"

    My mom was none too pleased.

     

  • They told my mom up until I was born that I was a boy.  Then they were like oh hey it's a girl.  I think I need cake now...
  • imagecode_8:
    They told my mom up until I was born that I was a boy.  Then they were like oh hey it's a girl.  I think I need cake now...
    Really!?!  I've always heard of that happening but never knew anyone.  I shall send you a cake.  You want pink or blue since errrrrr....
  • imageKarrey31:
    imagecode_8:
    They told my mom up until I was born that I was a boy.  Then they were like oh hey it's a girl.  I think I need cake now...
    Really!?!  I've always heard of that happening but never knew anyone.  I shall send you a cake.  You want pink or blue since errrrrr....

    Can you marble it so no ones feelings are hurt?

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    imageKarrey31:
    imagecode_8:
    They told my mom up until I was born that I was a boy.  Then they were like oh hey it's a girl.  I think I need cake now...
    Really!?!  I've always heard of that happening but never knew anyone.  I shall send you a cake.  You want pink or blue since errrrrr....

    Can you marble it so no ones feelings are hurt?

    Sure thing!
  • I think it would be cute to do at the baby shower for everyone else, but I'd want DH & I to know ahead of time! I don't want to tell anyone if we decide to find out. For me, it's more that I don't want boy & girl specific gifts from everyone. Not that I wouldn't be thankful for any gift, but once people get boy or girl in their heads, all they think about is pink frilly dresses or sports themed blue stuff and tend to forget about stuff you NEED. Then there's the stress of whether to return it or risk having relative's feelings hurt (ESPECIALLY from MIL!) not worth it, we'll keep the secret!
  •  I love this Idea!! Me and DH plan on doing this!
  • imageOo KrisTy oO:
    I think it would be cute to do at the baby shower for everyone else, but I'd want DH & I to know ahead of time! I don't want to tell anyone if we decide to find out. For me, it's more that I don't want boy & girl specific gifts from everyone. Not that I wouldn't be thankful for any gift, but once people get boy or girl in their heads, all they think about is pink frilly dresses or sports themed blue stuff and tend to forget about stuff you NEED. Then there's the stress of whether to return it or risk having relative's feelings hurt (ESPECIALLY from MIL!) not worth it, we'll keep the secret!

    Agree with this.  I really want to buy gender neutral in our big ticket items- stroller, car seat, high chair, etc. So that if we have a girl and a boy, things can be reused.  That stuff is expensive, and from what I've seen some of it is used for such a short time. I want to get every penny out of it that I can!

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  • imagemissdanib:
    I also just wanted to add that I loved finding out with just DH and I, and it will just be he and I tomorrow when we get the positive.  We are fairly private people (he proposed just the two of us, and I didn't want a wedding-he talked me into it, and there will only be the two of us in the delivery room).  That is a moment I just want to share with him.

    AND you're CDing. I think I love you!

  • When we decide to have kids, I really don't want to know until the baby is born. Dh wants to know asap. He sucks at keep secrets so him knowing and not telling won't happen. So we shall see what happens, but I doubt it's a gender party.
  • M and I don't want to know, but are thinking of compromising with MIL. MIL asked us if we could do a card in an envelope from the tech and she wants to do a cake at the baby shower (this is all WHEN we have kids of course) and we could find out then, we said we'd think about it.  It's a ways away anyway.
  • It's cute, but NMS.  I found out via U/S on all 3 kids - they did sooooo many U/S on the girls because of complications I think I got weekly glimpses of their bits.  With Austin, the tech outlined his peen and wrote "I'm a boy" on the U/S pic. 

    DH's nephew and his girlfriend were told consistently they were having a girl (this is the surprise baby they had in June, apparently she did get prenatal care) and went and had a pink car seat and everything.  Their boy little boy still sits in a pink car seat, and all his early pics are of him in all pink.

  • I think it's a cute idea, but there's no way I'll be patient enough to wait until a 'big reveal' like this.  I'd probably rip open the envelope en route to the bakery.  Stick out tongue
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