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Would you say something?

I hung out with one of my best friends this weekend and it was the first time I've seen her in about 3 months.  She has always been thin but more of an athletic build -she runs a lot, hikes, snowboards and coaches gymnastics, but now she is too skinny.  Her cheeks look hollow and her collar bones stick out.  In the last 3 months she started working 2 new jobs and she has a new boyfriend-the reasons I haven't seen her in 3 months.  I'm really worried about her but I don't know if I should say something, would you, and what would you say?

Re: Would you say something?

  • I know I would want to say something, but what do you say? Ugh. I guess you just have to come out and ask if she's ok and that you cna't help but notice how much weight she's lost.

  • Maybe you could mention are you getting enough me time.  Ask her how it is to work 2 jobs and a new boyfriend.  I think you need to do it in a caring way that you are checking on her health.  Weight is such a rough topic!
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