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Followup - Calling Hours

Calling hours for Mike will be at the Harloff Funeral Home in East Rochester from 4-7 on Tuesday night. I will probably try to go around 6:00, let me know if anyone would like to carpool.

Here's a link to directions:

Harloff Funeral Home Map

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Re: Followup - Calling Hours

  • I'd like to carpool.  6 works for me.  Do you think I should bring the gift to the funeral home?  I don't want it to get lost in the shuffle but I'm afraid if I mail it it won't get to her before she leaves for NC and that's a lot of $ to leave sitting in a mailbox.  What do you think?
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  • Hmm.... She might be overwhelmed at the funeral home, but I'd have to say that it'd be a good idea to get it to her asap. So, go for it!  I just don't know if she'd forget if she has other things, like flowers, to worry about getting home, too. YKWIM?
  • take it with you.  She should have it as soon as possible.  Maybe she'll have her purse near her and she can put it in there.
  • I really want to be there. Unfortunately, I have to work and this is obviously a very busy week..there is just no way to make it Tuesday evening. This is just so heartbreaking.
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  • I agree, take it along and hope for an opportunity. If you can't give it to her, maybe his parents can hang on to it and give it to her later.

    I would like to go, but would come from work and I have no one to watch Ryan. I would probably arrive around 5:15, not sure if any nesties would be there by then and maybe could hang out in the car with Ryan while I pop in real quick?

  • I won't be able to go on Tuesday either, but Read2Me I think it's best to give it to her there- maybe just make sure she has her purse nearby or if she has a family member with her that's taking care of things they could run and stick it in her bag. Thanks for taking care of this.
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  • I agree, I think we should give it to her on Tuesday.  I'd feel better if it got directly into someones hands as opposed to just dropping it in the mail.

    Read2me - I'll send you a message on FB to figure out details on Tuesday.

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  • I don't feel comfortable attending in person but I send my sincere condolences. If it's not a violation of privacy, I would like to send a sympathy card if someone would send me her address.
  • Unfortunately I can't go since I have to work until 6:30 tomorrow.Sad Please send her my sincere condolences.  Thanks for giving us the info though.
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    if it's not a violation of privacy, I would like to send a sympathy card if someone would send me her address.

    I would like to do this too!

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  • I'd like to send one too. 
  • I can't imagine she'd mind, but I'll check with Riv to make sure it's OK and I can PM or email those of you who would like to send a card with her address.  Barring that, I can give you my address and then arrange to get the bundle to her.
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  • I was hoping I'd be able to leave for Rochester a day early and get there, but I can't leave until Weds, so I won't be able to go.  If you are able to share her address, or if you are bundling cards, I'd be interested in sending one.
  • I'd also like to send a card. Either to Riv directly or MoxyMissy. Either one is fine with me...

    This is so sad.

  • Why does Roch. have to be so far from Albany? I can't leave work until 4, so wouldn't be able to get there in time. This is just so heartbreaking, and I wish I could go.
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