November 2008 Weddings
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WWYD... appropriate or no?
So, in a few days (2), it'll be one year since my step-father passed. I was thinking of sending my mom some flowers and a Thinking of You, but DH said that might just bring up memories. I was thinking something 'happy' like tulips or daisies vs. carnations...
Or should I just can it altogether and just call her instead? I will see her Friday (weather permitting).
or... (something else?)
Re: WWYD... appropriate or no?
Thats pretty tough, since its so fresh.
True. . . I guess it depends on the person's personality. Some people may not want reminders, while others might appreciate the support. I know a lot of people will act like nothing ever happened, because death and loss make them uncomfortable (makes me uncomfortable, too), but sometimes it makes people feel better to know that they are not alone, and someone else remembers and cares. Like Agent said, it's a tough call.
I'm sure she would just want to curl up and stay in all day. I'm also sure some of her friends will call her, visit w her, and maybe try to take her out-although she prob will refuse.
I do plan to call, anyway, but if I want to do this, I have to get on the ball now...
I agree with pp's, definately send 'em. It's a very sweet gesture.
Thanks gals! Your opinions mean a lot-(esp when I work with all guys today who throw snowballs at me... )
Will get them on order-I remember the bad ordering last year cause of the holidays...