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What is sexy?
My new year resolution for 2010 is to be more sexy and confident. My hubby is amazing and tells me that I am sexy almost every day... I just don't believe him. So I am going to try different things this year to help me feel sexy.. besides just sex.. though I am hoping that will definitely follow my more sexy lifestyle... so any ideas on stuff I can do to feel like a sexy confident woman... besides the obvious.. 
Happily Ever After is so much fun
Married June 2007
Started TTC August 2010
Diagnosed with PCOS March 2011
Started Process to become Foster Parents September 2012
Married June 2007
Started TTC August 2010
Diagnosed with PCOS March 2011
Started Process to become Foster Parents September 2012
Re: What is sexy?
What I've started doing is working out.I feel SO much better about myself now that I'm working on my terrible eating habits, and trying to loose some weight.
Think about what comes to mind when you think of a sexy, confident woman. Then, think about simple steps you could take to emulate that woman. For me personally, my idea of a sexy confident woman is Dita Von Teese, so if I wanted to be sexy in the same way she is, I might wear red lipstick every time I leave the house, even to get the mail, or give my H a certain number of (completely tasteful!) stripteases every month.
The thing is, my version of sexy is going to differ wildly from your version of sexy, so I can't really tell you what to do. And to be honest, it makes no sense to me that you're resolving to do something you can't define... that's setting yourself up to fail.
100% agree! Great for confidence too. My dad passed away this summer and last week I encouraged my mom to go see a movie alone. She was hesitant b/c she was self-conscious about doing it but went anyway. Baby steps but she was soooo pleased with herself and the experience!
Just one more thought to add to all PP's:
I keep a journal/diary (completely private) and I write about things I love about myself, things I'd like to improve or do better, and I write out goals I have for myself. This has sorta taught me to concentrate on the positive things about myself and how I keep getting better...closer to becoming the person I want to be. The bottom line is to not list/mention/talk about anything negative about yourself...focus on the good...and how to make that better...in whatever ways you think would make you feel better.