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Things you've learned this year
As the year draws to an end, is there anything surprising or interesting you've learned this year? If so, share!
We have so much time, and so little to do! Strike that, reverse it.
My Bio (wedding pics added 7/6)My 101
Re: Things you've learned this year
I've learned that while not being laid-off is a good thing, afterwards sometimes you'll almost wish you were so you'd have an excuse to start from scratch somewhere else.
I've learned that my DH isn't 100% anti-kids as I thought he was. In fact, now I think he's more ready than I am to have children.
I've learned that not all people I work with are sane.
I've learned that just because you have one smart, lovely, angelic rescue dog it does not mean your second dog will also be smart, lovely and angelic. But you will eventually love him.
I've learned that most people my age who seem to be in better shape financially than we are... are either in debt or still have their parents pay for everything.
I've learned that sometimes it really is better to ask for forgiveness instead of permission... but sometimes it still makes your life hell.
BFP 12.20.2010 :: missed m/c 1/2011 around 8 weeks
BFP @ 9dpo 5.24.2011 :: missed m/c 6/2011 around 7 weeks
positive for ANAs (1:40) with a speckled pattern
MTHFR c677t mutation (heterozygous)
*folic acid, baby asprin, Prometrium, acupuncture, Lovenox*
BFP @ 9dpo 2.1.2012 || HCG = 8 : Progesterone = 19.2
2nd HCG @ 11dpo = 40 || 3rd HCG @ 21dpo = over 5000!
Stick, little one, stick! EDD October 15, 2012
Gosh I feel like 2009 was the year of let's throw Keri 9 million curve balls to see how she deals...
Wow, I've had these same thoughts!
So true, unfortunately.
So true! I've learned that my husband knows I know that sometimes it's better to ask for forgiveness than permission and he hates when I do that. Hehe.
I've learned that when you lose all respect for someone, nothing they say or do can hurt you emotionally.
I learned that lay-offs can be a blessing when your job is absolutely making you miserable.
My Bio (wedding pics added 7/6)
My 101
I've learned that we don't need "stuff" to make us happy and living a simpler life is actually kind of nice. [speaking of, I need to go through my "stuff" and purge a bit]
I've also learned to appreciate my family more since we don't see them too often.
I have learned that being a patient, loving, good wife isn't as easy at it once seemed. I need to work on 'letting go' and being more thoughtful to DH.
With DH's unemployment for the last year, I have learned to live with less. This has been so vaulable, as we have the opportunity to save now that he has a job.
I have learned that DH actually does have that "I'm the man - and I want to be the breadwinner" ideals - and I learned that I'm okay with that... and looking forward to it. (Maybe not as independant as I once was... and it feels great to be able to depend on him).
I've learned that you just have to listen to advice and forget it. Our parents both are offering advice from the kindest place in their hearts - but we gotta do what we need to do... regardless.
I've learned that I really want a baby... but I need to wait for the right time. Waiting has been harder than I expected.
I could keep going for hours, but I'll stop with this.
"The House We Built."
A journey of building the dream.
I've learned that life is hard being a grown up and just when you think you are getting a break, it just gets hard again.
I've learned that every single second with family members is important because when you lose someone extremely close to you, it is pain like I have never known before.
I''ve learned that I really hit the jackpot with my DH. He is loving, caring, supportive, patient, and perfect for me.
I've learned a lot of patience in not speaking my mind in order to not hurt people's feelings, thanks to my MIL
TTC #1 since February 2011
BFP #1 1/14/12 EDD 9/24/12 m/c at 8w4d on 2/20/12
March 2012- Dx with PCOS, started metformin
July 2012- SA completely normal