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Attempt at a controversial poll... transplants

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Re: Attempt at a controversial poll... transplants

  • I'll go first Smile

     I'm really torn about this issue. I know lots of transplants, obviously, and love them! In some ways, I love the diversity it brings to Austin and my life. In some ways, I don't like Austin being changed to be like other places (coughCaliforniacough). I don't mind growth and change, as long as it's where Austin wants to grow. When they start shutting down Jimmy LeFave playing accoustic music at Shady Grove at 7pm .... things are getting too uptight. And yes, I tend to blame that somewhat on "transplants" moving in.

    Man ... I hope this isn't flame worthy. I'm a wuss.

  • Ok fine, I'll start.

    I think transplants are fine.  Except when they come from HCOL areas and buy up all the good real estate.  Or expect there to be a strip mall on every corner for their convenience (coughcoughIhatethegalleriaandmisstheBackyarddittoSouthparkMeadowscough).  Or whine about Austin not having ______ because whatever place they came from had it and it was so much better.

    I do like that Austin attracts liberal, creative people that usually tend to be pretty open-minded.  I love the diversity.  Of course that means that my industry is crowded full of people competing for the same few jobs.

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    BFP 12.20.2010 :: missed m/c 1/2011 around 8 weeks
    BFP @ 9dpo 5.24.2011 :: missed m/c 6/2011 around 7 weeks
    positive for ANAs (1:40) with a speckled pattern
    MTHFR c677t mutation (heterozygous)
    *folic acid, baby asprin, Prometrium, acupuncture, Lovenox*
    BFP @ 9dpo 2.1.2012 || HCG = 8 : Progesterone = 19.2
    2nd HCG @ 11dpo = 40 || 3rd HCG @ 21dpo = over 5000!
    Stick, little one, stick! EDD October 15, 2012
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  • imageAustinBride06:

    Or whine about Austin not having ______ because whatever place they came from had it and it was so much better.

    Word. 

  • I have absolutely nothing against transplants...I guess I sort of am one. I came here in 98 for college and refused to leave. What I do have a problem with are whiny people in general, whether from here or not. Austin has its own vibe. Take it or leave it. Some change can be good, but trying to change the personality of a city that was not in need of it (I could see wanting to make the "fattest" city healthier, etc) is annoying.
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  • imageLeigha12:
    What I do have a problem with are whiny people in general, whether from here or not. Austin has its own vibe. Take it or leave it. Some change can be good, but trying to change the personality of a city that was not in need of it (I could see wanting to make the "fattest" city healthier, etc) is annoying.

    So true.  I got SO mad when I saw a "Keep Austin Normal" bumper sticker once.  Um... go away and leave if you don't like it, buddy.

    Help for Haiti: Learn What You Can Do

    BFP 12.20.2010 :: missed m/c 1/2011 around 8 weeks
    BFP @ 9dpo 5.24.2011 :: missed m/c 6/2011 around 7 weeks
    positive for ANAs (1:40) with a speckled pattern
    MTHFR c677t mutation (heterozygous)
    *folic acid, baby asprin, Prometrium, acupuncture, Lovenox*
    BFP @ 9dpo 2.1.2012 || HCG = 8 : Progesterone = 19.2
    2nd HCG @ 11dpo = 40 || 3rd HCG @ 21dpo = over 5000!
    Stick, little one, stick! EDD October 15, 2012
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  • imageGuavaGal:
    imageAustinBride06:

    Or whine about Austin not having ______ because whatever place they came from had it and it was so much better.

    Word. 

    Embarrassed

    I am so guilty of this....but I know y'all would be happy with a trader joe's and H&M, too!!!!

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  • imagessinca:
    imageGuavaGal:
    imageAustinBride06:

    Or whine about Austin not having ______ because whatever place they came from had it and it was so much better.

    Word. 

    Embarrassed

    I am so guilty of this....but I know y'all would be happy with a trader joe's and H&M, too!!!!

    You got me there... if Austin got an H&M I probably would not complain. Embarrassed

    Help for Haiti: Learn What You Can Do

    BFP 12.20.2010 :: missed m/c 1/2011 around 8 weeks
    BFP @ 9dpo 5.24.2011 :: missed m/c 6/2011 around 7 weeks
    positive for ANAs (1:40) with a speckled pattern
    MTHFR c677t mutation (heterozygous)
    *folic acid, baby asprin, Prometrium, acupuncture, Lovenox*
    BFP @ 9dpo 2.1.2012 || HCG = 8 : Progesterone = 19.2
    2nd HCG @ 11dpo = 40 || 3rd HCG @ 21dpo = over 5000!
    Stick, little one, stick! EDD October 15, 2012
    image
  • Aren't we supposed to be getting one at the Domain (eventually when the economy rebounds, I guess)?
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  • this reminds me of the 80s/90s when california had a huge influx of people - I remember seeing a bumper sticker saying, "welcome to CA, now go home."

    I'm glad texans are more welcoming!

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  • imagessinca:
    imageGuavaGal:
    imageAustinBride06:

    Or whine about Austin not having ______ because whatever place they came from had it and it was so much better.

    Word. 

    Embarrassed

    I am so guilty of this....but I know y'all would be happy with a trader joe's and H&M, too!!!!

    So true!  Perhaps I'm only irritated when people complain about not having things I don't also want.  Embarrassed 

  • I grew up in West Texas and hated it my entire life.  I went to school in San Marcos and fell in love with the area.  After graduation, DH and I moved to Dallas/Plano and found that we are not rich or pretentious enough to fit in.  (Obviously, it wasn't everyone but the majority of the people who we met or came in contact with on a frequent basis.)  We couldn't wait for things to work out so we could get back to this area.  We love it here and never wish for it to be like the other places we've lived.  Big Smile
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  • I haven't met too many transplants that I actually liked.  They all seem to complain about something or the other about Austin.  So my thinking is, if they have those gripes and they think their original homeplace is so much better, then why don't they just leave?  

  • I think I'm kind of a transplant too,  I came to UT and wouldn't leave.  However,  I don't really complain about Austin much,  I usually won't talk it up to people who don't live here though,  b/c I don't want anyone else moving here

    I would like a Trader Joe's though...

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  • imagessinca:

    this reminds me of the 80s/90s when california had a huge influx of people - I remember seeing a bumper sticker saying, "welcome to CA, now go home."

    I'm glad texans are more welcoming!

    Hahaha! Oh there were totally "Go Back To California" bumper stickers. I haven't seen one in a while though.

    Hehe, and ... we are glad to have you!

  • ok...i was really homesick when i first moved here and really missed $20 brazilian waxes so i'm guilty as well of griping.  now that i've lived here and gotten adjusted to being away from my family...#1 - haven't been to Miami in over a year and have zero desire to go back.  #2 - brag to everyone that still lives there about how great it is in Austin.  #3 managed to get a "you were right, Austin is better, from several friends and family that have visited.  :D
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  • So, I'm a transplant obviously, I moved here last summer. But here is my 2 cents. I absolutely love it down here. I love how artsy - for lack of a better word - it is. I will say though, the transplants that are trying to change Austin to be the way they want need to just go home. It is such a unique community and that is what makes it so awesome. I hear the protests on having concerts end earlier due to the noise and it makes me sick. If you don't want to hear music late, live somewhere else. This is the music capital so why would you want it to change and if you want it to change, why are you here?
  • imageditzydi_2000:

    I haven't met too many transplants that I actually liked.  They all seem to complain about something or the other about Austin.  So my thinking is, if they have those gripes and they think their original homeplace is so much better, then why don't they just leave?  


    Because some of us (or our DH's) have a really good job here.
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  • imageJess.O:
    I grew up in West Texas and hated it my entire life.  I went to school in San Marcos and fell in love with the area.  After graduation, DH and I moved to Dallas/Plano and found that we are not rich or pretentious enough to fit in.  (Obviously, it wasn't everyone but the majority of the people who we met or came in contact with on a frequent basis.)  We couldn't wait for things to work out so we could get back to this area.  We love it here and never wish for it to be like the other places we've lived.  Big Smile

    What part of West Texas did you grow up? I lived in the panhandle (Amarillo to be exact) for about 12 years and hated it!

  • We moved from Raleigh-Durham-Chapel Hill, NC, which is also overrun by transplants. It's much worse there than it is here. Friends of ours there had moved from Maryland, and they said I was the first southerner they'd met in NC... and I'm not from North Carolina. It seemed like every other person we met in NC had moved there from the northeast, and they were driving up the real estate prices. Sad

    We've been in Austin for three years, and we love it. We have no plans to leave any time soon! We came here for DH's job, and so far, the area is a good fit for us. 

  • imagethegastons:

    imageJess.O:
    I grew up in West Texas and hated it my entire life.  I went to school in San Marcos and fell in love with the area.  After graduation, DH and I moved to Dallas/Plano and found that we are not rich or pretentious enough to fit in.  (Obviously, it wasn't everyone but the majority of the people who we met or came in contact with on a frequent basis.)  We couldn't wait for things to work out so we could get back to this area.  We love it here and never wish for it to be like the other places we've lived.  Big Smile

    What part of West Texas did you grow up? I lived in the panhandle (Amarillo to be exact) for about 12 years and hated it!

    I grew up in Cisco which is outside of Abilene. My family and friends still live there but I hate to even go visit!
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  • I'm a transplant so I should say I love them :)

    But I couldn't live in Round Rock anymore.  Maybe the transplants are to blame, but the growth in that town was too much for me.  They are building so much and the roads can't handle it.  Going anywhere is a nightmare because of traffic.  Two years ago, our apt complex at the corner of 1460 and Old Settlers seemed like it was in the middle of nowhere.  I don't even recognize that corner anymore because they have built so much there.

    I love Belton/Temple because it still has that country feel.  I'll be very sad if all the farms are gone in 10 years and there's a Walgreens on every corner. 

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  • We are also transplants and love here.  Wouldn't change a thing actually.  From a professional standpoint, I LOVE the diversity transplants bring to my job, I get to meet people that are from all over the country.  99% of them love living here and I love that!
  • imageMrsNole:
    imageditzydi_2000:

    I haven't met too many transplants that I actually liked.  They all seem to complain about something or the other about Austin.  So my thinking is, if they have those gripes and they think their original homeplace is so much better, then why don't they just leave?  


    Because some of us (or our DH's) have a really good job here.

    This.  We moved here because of DH's job.  Austin is a nice place to live and we have been here for 3 years, but it doesn't feel like home to us.  We are moving up to CO once DH is finished with school... we miss being close to family so much and CO is a better fit for us all around.  Austin will always be special to us because this is where we started our life together, adopted our dog, bought our first house, etc.  

  • I rather like transplants, as it brings diversity.  Of course, I've never much understood staying in one place for life...the comforts of home are great, but there's so much out there to see.  I feel blessed to be an Air Force Brat who's seen/lived in so many places, and ideally, our kids will have those same kind of experiences.  You just don't get that staying in one place.
  • imageditzydi_2000:

    I haven't met too many transplants that I actually liked.  They all seem to complain about something or the other about Austin.  So my thinking is, if they have those gripes and they think their original homeplace is so much better, then why don't they just leave?  

    I don't think I grip about Austin, but believe me, if I could get DH to move to Seattle I would go home in a heartbeat!! Nothing against Austin because I like it here pretty well and I've made it home, but I just really really love my hometown.

  • imageAustinBride06:

    imageLeigha12:
    What I do have a problem with are whiny people in general, whether from here or not. Austin has its own vibe. Take it or leave it. Some change can be good, but trying to change the personality of a city that was not in need of it (I could see wanting to make the "fattest" city healthier, etc) is annoying.

    So true.  I got SO mad when I saw a "Keep Austin Normal" bumper sticker once.  Um... go away and leave if you don't like it, buddy.

    I can totally see DH having this bumper sticker on his truck if he were a bumper sticker sort of person.  He's a native Austinite that has lived here his whole life though, minus a few years when he was 5-8 that they lived in N Texas.  From his POV, Austin didn't used to be so liberal/ weird.  He prefers more of the small-southern-town vibe that it used to be.  Granted it isn't that anymore at all, but that bumper sticker doesn't necessarily hold the negative connotation that it may translate to for another person.

    As far as my opinion, I don't see why anyone cares where anyone else is from.  My mom moved my sisters and I here in our early teens and we had no choice.  We've made families and friends, but we still don't completely feel at home here and constantly hearing that I was a "transplant" didn't help me feel at home, either.  I don't take offense to "Native Texan" pride, I just don't see the point in pointing a finger at "transplants" and evaluating whether they belong here or not.

  • I have lived here since 1983 (& am a native Texan) so yeah, I consider myself pretty much a native austinite. I'm torn on this. There are some things I like about the transplants - diversity & the gentrification of some areas that are much improved bc of it (soco), etc BUT I miss miss miss truly austin spots like The Backyard & Liberty Lunch & countless other "weird" mom & pop places that are now Chile's and Walgreen's & strip malls... I'm also a central Austin kind of a gal - I lived here when the Arboretum was built (!) & it was considered waaay out. I don't "do" north of 183 or south of 71. That's just not Austin to me. 
  • imageKateAggie:
    I rather like transplants, as it brings diversity.  Of course, I've never much understood staying in one place for life...the comforts of home are great, but there's so much out there to see.  I feel blessed to be an Air Force Brat who's seen/lived in so many places, and ideally, our kids will have those same kind of experiences.  You just don't get that staying in one place.

     

    This. I was an Army brat. My parents moved to Round Rock when my dad got out of the Army. Even after that, I've lived in Orlando, Monterey CA and Seattle. To be honest, I came back to TX for three reasons:

    1) My mom and brother are here( being in the military you become very close to your family) . And his family is all in El Paso.

     2) IT IS CHEAP! Really, the cost of living is much better than anywhere else I've lived so far.

    3) As petty as it sounds, my tattoo artist is here. Once you find a good artist, you don't leave.

     

    I'd love to be able to move around more once we have a family but moving is expensive. So who knows how long we are here.

  • Speaking of pretentious...

    I'm really surprised by some of the provincial responses to this post.  We do not live in a vacuum; the xenophobic attitude is useless & unbecoming. 

        

  • imageFireChiefsBride:
    He's a native Austinite that has lived here his whole life though, minus a few years when he was 5-8 that they lived in N Texas.  From his POV, Austin didn't used to be so liberal/ weird.  He prefers more of the small-southern-town vibe that it used to be. 

    That may also depend on how he grew up here. A friend of my mother's moved to Austin in her late teens/early 20s which was in the early 70s. She has some pretty ... interesting ... stories that would make you think Austin was pretty weird and liberal!

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