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UPDATE: Bella's sleep habits

She's been taking ALL of her naps in the crib with one arm swaddled and one arm out. We use her "baby crack machine" that we used to play the "rain" noise on and are now using the heartbeat noise and it seems to be working! 

She slept in there all night 2 nights ago, all night the night before last and 4 hours in there last night. She has a really stuffy nose now so she's having a hard time breathing and has a cough. So last night I pulled her into bed with me so I could get her back to sleep because she would wake up coughing and then start crying. Poor girl! Ryan ended up sleeping in the spare bedroom from 5-7am because her coughing was waking him up. He was fine with it and said she needed to be with us. 

Thanks for everyone's input and suggestions! I really appreciate it.

A suggestion: I just finished reading "ways to  calming the fussy baby" by Dr Sears after it was recommended by a friend. It's a fabulous book! All sorts of AP suggestions in there and it made me feel really good about everything: breastfeeding, co-sleeping, baby wearing. There's a section on baby wearing that I LOVED!! Now I know why on Christmas Eve when I took Bella after she was passed around and put her in the sling, she calmed down immediately and fell asleep. 

Re: UPDATE: Bella's sleep habits

  • Yay, it sounds like things are looking up.  I think the most important thing is that you and YH are on the same page!

    I was thinking of recommending the Dr. Sears book, in a ready frenzy I checked them all out from my ND a few months ago and read or skimmed each and that is one that I only skimmed (and figured I could read when/if it became something I needed to know more about).  I loved all the books, but know they are not for everyone...  

  • Glad to hear that things are working out better. Is Bella feeling better?  Ashton has a cough and runny nose too.

     We plan to try and transition Ashton to his crib during nap time this weekend.  I have the No Cry Sleep Solution (just need to start writing down when he wakes up at night so that we can analyze) and I will look for the Dr. Sears book too. 

    I don't mind Ashton sleeping with me and neither does Adam (he has been sleeping in the spare room or couch since basically we started bed-sharing).  I think I am more the one who wants to transition Ashton into the crib as Adam would rather Ashton stay with me in the bed.   

    I'm sure I'll be asking you tons of questions once my time comes to move him during the night.

  • Renee- I would rather continue bed sharing but it's been a problem for Ryan, he wakes up at her EVERY whim! I think if she slept more on my side of the bed it may be better, but I flip over to nurse her so sometimes she ends up in between us and thats when he gets disrupted. Ryan also misses us snuggling up at night so that's an issue for him. He did mention that he could go sleep in the spare bedroom but I hate the idea of that. In the end, we both agree, whatever's best for Bella is what we'll do. I'm more of the "let her wean to the crib when she's ready" and "let her wean from nursing when she's ready"- although I'm hoping the nursing thing is after she's 1 :)

    We really need to start making more time for him and I at times other than night time, like when she's napping or whatever. Yesterday, she napped in the crib and him and I napped on the couch. It was so nice just to snuggle up next to him! 
     
    I really like the Dr Sears book, it's totally AP but we're more along those lines so it works for what we agree with. I'm sure it's not for everyone though. It made total sense to me though. One of the things he talks about is babies getting passed around and overwhelmed, that happened to Bella on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. He talks about how wearing them gets them back into mommy's rhythm and helps them calm back down. That 100% works for Bella. I put her in the babyhawk both days (family of course was mad that there was no more holding/passing her around) but it worked, she settled immediately! I just explained that it was too much for her and I needed her to be by me. They probably thought I was nuts but I didn't care!
     
    Bella's super stuffy/congested today and her temp was 99.6. I think she may be starting to teeth (YIKES!!) but she is 5 months old so it's about that time. I can't see anything peeking out of her gums yet but she's chewing on everything, her hands, toys, my shoulder, my fingers, so I'm guessing that it's about that time. I hope it's teething and not a cold!  
     
    How's Ashton? He's SOOO big, I saw your pics on FB. Total cutie! 
  • That's awesome Sarah!  I am glad it's working for you three...we also plan to AP as much as possible and I love Dr. Sear's web site.  Hey, do you post on the AP Board on The Bump?  If not, you should check it out!
  • I'm so glad to hear it! I think that sleep/cry solutions are different for every baby (which must make all of the contrasting advice out there super frustrating!), and I'm really happy that you guys seem to have found what works for you two and Bella!
  • i'm so glad you guys are making good progress! :)
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