So I check my email this morning and I have this email from my ex bf's mom... He and I dated for 4 years and broke up in 2002. He has been married for 5 years now. HIs wife was our releastate agent. Him, his wife and his parents did come to my wedding...Before my wedding the last time I saw his parents was 4 years ago at my sisters wedding. My sisters husband works for ex bf's family business....So Ex bf's family is in a round about way in my life at all points in time.
So I get this email, totally almost made me cry
I wanted to wish u a merry xmas but not on face book. I dont know how to do the personal thing. After all settles down i think about u, and phil and i are so happy that u are happy. I see that u are. We miss u. I hope u know. As u know its difficult to let u know. Butt.... I want u to know. U are in our heart. Have a wonderful life
Re: Woah. Random email from Ex BF's Mom
That's really sweet. Butt made me giggle though.
hahah yeah...its funny, she is freaken LOADED, and still cant spell, and sometimes her use of words is way off! But she did have brain surgery, so that could be her issue!
So sweet, I want to respond but not sure what to say.
THAT is super sweet!!! and it brought a tear to my eye...
How nice that they think of you that way!
Maybe you could respond with something like "Hope you had a happy holiday and everything is well with your family."
I might be wary of saying anything else unless you are willing to accept an offer to get together in the future. Of course if that's something you want to do, then I think it would be fine.
Ditto.
That's really sweet of her to send that email!
ok this is what I typed up. Let me know if its weird or ok
Very nice and well put.
Ok, I sent it!
And she asked me to lunch, But to keep it just between us...I think she is worried it will make ex's wife jealous or something!
Your response was good. Will you have lunch with her?