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Uuuuugh...Im being a girl.

Sooo DH's Ex (the one right before me) Hangs out with my friend M.

I have known M for 5 years. She started hanging out with DH's Ex like 2.5 years ago. When they started hanging out I let her know that it did kind of bother me, but we are adults and I am not going to dictate who she can be friends with. Or make her pick between Me and the Ex.

Well the EX got another FI (Which they have already broken up, this will make her 2nd FI since DH and I have been together) And M moved out of state for some dude. M and the EX are both very driven by men. Their whole lives revovle around finding a man. Both are seriously not relationship material at all (which is crappy of me to say about M)

So, M moved back to AZ like 2 months ago. I have seen her once and text'd a few times. When I saw her, she said she wasnt hanging with the EX.

Well...M just posted this pic on FB. M is on the left DH's Ex is on the Right

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Not sure why its not working... http://i28.photobucket.com/albums/c212/Miss_Foxxy/eva.jpg

It totally makes me all Salty that MY friend is hanging out with that harlot! I have tried to make plans many times with M to hang out, But I feel like since i'm not single anymore, she doesnt want to hang. PLUS I feel like the EX is looking all cuter then me, and that makes me jealous and feel like I need to start working on being cute. :(

(also I must mention that TOM starts tomorrow, so this may all be hormon induced)

Re: Uuuuugh...Im being a girl.

  • No pic...

    Sorry, it's hard to deal with... I was one of the last single girls out of my friends-actually, they were starting to be 'divorced' and newly single... Mine were glad to have me around as a single gal, but I always drove to visit them cause..."I was the single gal". 

    As for looking cuter-blame TOM, please! You are adorable!

  • imageLorelaiOctoberBride:

    As for looking cuter-blame TOM, please! You are adorable!

    Ditto!!

    Aunt Martha(TOM) can be such a JERK!!

    Plus I always tell myself "you have the ring and she doesn't!!" Wink

  • I got nothing, cause even just hearing about DH's ex drives me crazy (I'm weird), but I will say this:

    She's NOT looking cuter, are you kidding me? And also, she doesn't like half as happy as you do, so there!

  • I can't see the pic, but I'm sure you're cuter.

    Also, I can understand not liking M being friends with your H's ex, that would bother me too. I have found that a few of my friends have distanced themselves since I've gotten married. It's upsetting, but I figure the real ones will stick around for the long hall and who cares about the rest -- their loss.

  • I'd be PO'd too.  I mean honestly, does ex have so few options for friends that she's got to steal yours?  I hate how small the world can be sometimes.

    And please.  Girl's got nothing on you! 

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  • Thanks for the pep talk ladies :)
  • imageRachel2315:

    I'd be PO'd too.  I mean honestly, does ex have so few options for friends that she's got to steal yours?  I hate how small the world can be sometimes.

    And please.  Girl's got nothing on you! 

    Ditto! 

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