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male g-spot

I went to a pure romance party and this was being discussed. I know the common way is to enter through the anus to reach it, but does anyone know how to do it without going the anal route? DH is totally against that, not really wanting to do it either:)

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  • Wow.... I can just imagine telling my hubby to let me get to his anus!

    Or better yet, don't say anything & just go back there & surprise him! lol

  • Well, that would surprise him.
  • I don't know any other way but you could try rubbing on his perineum/taint. I do that when giving a bj because I don't feel comfortable sticking my finger up my husbands butt! He likes the taint rubbing and it seems to get him off faster. Worth a try!!
  • You're referring to the prostate. No way it can be accessed any other way.
  • go through the throat

    i dunno how much he would enjoy that tho

  • Yes, the prostate is in the anus.  It is located on the interior wall, a couple of inches from the opening.

    You can provide a certain level of stimulation with firm pressure on the perineum.  You might also want to hold a vibrator in your hand while applying that pressure --- your hand will transmit the sensations to the sensitive area.

    If you want to try some anal stimulation with a minimum of mess, put on a latex glove (unpowdered).  With your partner laying on his back, apply a small bit of lubricant to your index finger and gently slide it into the anal opening, finger pads up.  Allow the muscles to relax and move your finger in further.  You will find the prostate on the wall.  Apply pressure to it, perhaps with small strokes with your finger.  Do this while he masturbates himself or you give him oral sex.  When he experiences an orgasm, the prostate will clearly enlarge and pulse a bit.  As the orgasm diminishes, allow your finger to be pushed out by the muscle spasms of his anus.  Very carefully remove the latex glove, turning it inside out as you do, trapping any lube or feces inside the glove.  

    Then bask in his compliments... 

  • For the record, he will LOVE this. IF he can open himself up to it. It may always be one of those 'for special occasions' acts, but I've only ever heard/experienced good things from men.

    Start with stroking the perenium. Then 'rimming' the a-hole with a well lubricated finger. This may occur over days/months/years to get him comfortable. Don't ever take him by surprise or you may never get him to try it again. Guys are sensitive about their a-holes being penetrated.. lol. It has long been thought of as an 'exit only'.

  • imageDaringMiss:

    Yes, the prostate is in the anus.  It is located on the interior wall, a couple of inches from the opening.

    You can provide a certain level of stimulation with firm pressure on the perineum.  You might also want to hold a vibrator in your hand while applying that pressure --- your hand will transmit the sensations to the sensitive area.

    If you want to try some anal stimulation with a minimum of mess, put on a latex glove (unpowdered).  With your partner laying on his back, apply a small bit of lubricant to your index finger and gently slide it into the anal opening, finger pads up.  Allow the muscles to relax and move your finger in further.  You will find the prostate on the wall.  Apply pressure to it, perhaps with small strokes with your finger.  Do this while he masturbates himself or you give him oral sex.  When he experiences an orgasm, the prostate will clearly enlarge and pulse a bit.  As the orgasm diminishes, allow your finger to be pushed out by the muscle spasms of his anus.  Very carefully remove the latex glove, turning it inside out as you do, trapping any lube or feces inside the glove.  

    Then bask in his compliments... 

     

    Ummm, I can not imagine trying this... laxtex gloves or not.

  • Like head sit said. You have to work up to it. Can't just go full bore all willy-nilly. It will take time, but if he is open enough, in time he will respond. I did this for my fiance' and in time, he came to respond to it. And now enjoys it. The best time to try is when giving a blow job, I have found. He is more receptive at that time.
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