Sex & Romance
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
DaringMiss
Are you a sex therapist by any chance?
Your responses are just top notch; I'm fascinated.
How old are you, if you don't mind me asking?
Re: DaringMiss
Oh my....
I am 42, have been around several *very* interesting blocks, and worship at the altar of the god of all sex advice columnists, Dan Savage.
Ok...now that you have flattered me, I will have to spill a funny little story from my wild and wicked past.
As a bit of background, I stay on excellent terms with my old boyfriends and lovers.
While in my 20's, I had an ex who was very much into bjs. I was GG&G and happy to oblige. When we first got together, he mentioned that he had once gotten this bj from a girl that just blew his neurons. Being a competitive sort, I set about figuring out how to duplicate the experience. We were together for 2.5 years -- I had a lot of time to practice. I eventually met the girl and we had a wonderful chat swapping techniques.
Apparently, I figured out some of her madskillz and got to be quite good at bjs. I always got compliments from lovers -- once they regained their senses. A couple of years later, I had a lover who was very curious about all sorts of sexual things. We had a great deal of fun together, but eventually moved on. Suddenly early one spring morning (I mean like 6am), I got a call from him. He was just coming home from a threesome with a couple and had actually tried giving head to the guy (something he had always been curious about). He said that it had been very interesting and that while he was going down on the guy, he just kept thinking about doing all the things I did to him and tried to duplicate it.
It totally made me smile.
We were very close. Long after we stopped being lovers, we were very good friends.
Plus, he knew I was the only person in the world he could share it with.
OK...you can't do this. Now you gotta tell give us step by step tutorial for the amazing BJ. Aaaaand go.