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Would love to be the queen of being on top but....
I always have a really hard time finishing if I am on top. My husband seems to really enjoy it but I can't really get anywhere. I really enjoy it too but I never hit the point where I feel anything building.
Truthfully the only way that I really ever finish is if he is on top. I think that I get off by outside stimulation more then penetration.
Any suggestions for how to make being on top productive?
Re: Would love to be the queen of being on top but....
Lean forward all the way (like you are laying on top of him, but your legs aren't straight out.) KWIM?
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There's all kinds of things you can do.
1. Reverse cowgirl
2. Going in circles (or half circles) instead of up and down
3. Put a vibrating cockring on him
4. Lean all the way back (grab his ankles)
5. Lean all the way forward (like you're gonna go for a kiss). Let him kiss, bite, nibble on your boobs.
6. Play (or have him play) with your clit
On top and doggie style seems to be the only way for me to get off...when I'm on top, though, I have to be SUPER turned on, and i spread my knees far apart and use pretty much only a butt popping motion, like booty dancing, up and down, and leaning forward. Some people say there isn't a g-spot, but I believe there is, which is inside your vaginal walls and up. The stimulation will make it sensitive and off you go! I also like the dominating feel of him behind.. haha, you never know, you might even like your hair pulled a little!!
go on your feet...like your squatting over him instead then.
I highly recommend that.
I've actually found that that makes my knees hurt worse (and the popping/cracking sounds are not exactly sexy :P). I have found that leaning forward until I'm practically lying on top of him helps, though.
I agree with a lot of other suggestions: vibrating *** ring (yes, please!), manual stimulation by you or him, reverse cowgirl, leaning back or forward (with fingers or a bullet if you're leaning back), etc. I'm an outside stimulation girl, too, so we've played around with quite a few things to find a few that work well.
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This. If I'm on top, and can find the spot that feels good. I tell him not to move while I enjoy myself.
I also like leaning forward and having him thrust from underneath me. You could try that. I get so tired on top that it helps if can still do a little.
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