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Wow was there a full moon last night or something? DH vent.
D asks me at 3 yesterday afternoon if I was interested in going to his friends to watch the game. I was not. I don't care for his b!tch of a wife or their relationship. They got married bc she got pg after two weeks of meeting eachother and now they cant stand one another. they are completely disrespectful in front of their daughter (M is 2) and just all around not good company to be around. So no, no thank you. I would rather go to my own house and watch a game I could care less about without feeling like I am the middle of a couples really bad divorce.
So at 345 he tells me he is going. I have no problem with this. I stayed late at work becaues I didnt have any reason to go home and had stuff to get done. He texted me about 8 saying he probably wouldnt be staying for the whole game and offered to bring me something to eat "if i decide to leave early enough". I said no that I wasnt waiting around for him to decide to leave to bring me food. I never hear anything else after that. Half time comes and goes, end of the game comes and goes, etc.
At midnight I text him asking if he is just spending the night and he replies "no". Nothing else. At this point I cant even sleep because I have that one eye open thing going on so that I am aware of the noises etc. At 1 something he comes stumbling in the house waking the dogs waking me, drinking milk and so forth. I lands in bed and mumbles something along the lines of "shory imsho lahte bahbe...L wash telling me sumshing about the neighbor being on oxysh and not wanting him to be around"
WTF? I have to work in 6 hours you sunuvabitch. Playing drunken marriage councelor is not a high priority for you. I tell him that he was incosiderate about not at least calling to let me know when he would be home and not making it a priority to at least be home at a decent hour.
He thinks I am being unreasonable. WTF!?!
Now he is trying to butter me up today, but I wont have any of it. I'm just so sick of him thinking only about himself and being so inconsiderate. He doesnt work on Fridays so it was no big deal for him to be out all night. Grrrrr I could kick him.
(btw, he wasnt as drunk as I made him sound....it was cold lol)
Re: Wow was there a full moon last night or something? DH vent.
Gaaaaaaaaaaaah! What I said to Rachel applies here as well!
I hate it when poepl do this! Esp during the work week...On a weekend I am a liitle bit more understanding, but come on...we are adults, drinking into the wee hours of the morning durning the week is not cool.
That is the part I would be most pissed about. You're at work, tired and he's at home probably still sleeping.
That's so lame!! I hate when Dh keeps me up and then acts like it's no big thing. Yeah, maybe not for you bc you can sleep in!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry you're so sleepy today =(. Hopefully you can have some extra yummy coffee to perk you up or maybe a Rockstar Juiced (mmmmm, I love those things!!).
And to this:
I'd be SO PISSED if I came home and all DH had done all day was sleep and play video games. Hopefully he's done something productive today to at least show he cares about something...
Grrrr. These "men" are killing me! WTH WTH WTH