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My DH and I have been friends with a particular couple for about10 years. The wife and I met because our at the time boyfriends were good friends. Now we are all really good friends and we are now maried. We hang out on most holidays and for a weekend or two on none holidays every year. We both have a daughter. and live about 3 hours apart. We are not and have never been swingers. Nor are we interested in it; however, our friends informed us that their brother and sister in-law think we are. I am not sure how to respond to this. We have only met their brother and sister in-law a handful of times. We were not with our friends when the brother and sister in-law asked them if we are all swingers. The entire comment is very strange and surprising. Just want to share.
Re: Swingers
They haven't approached you about it? What do think you're going to do call them up and say you heard they thought you were swingers and wanted to set the record straight??
Yeah, good luck with that.
Maybe you should give swinging a try. You don't want to seem close-minded after all.
You're weird.
Have you tried it?
Well when DH suggested it I didn't want to seem like a prude or like I'm judgmental, so I figured I had to at least try it.
And even if you and your spouse were?
Why does this issue concern them so very much?
Very good. You are a faithful wife for doing exactly what your Husband tells you to do. You should always submit to his will and do whatever he wants. That is what the Bible tells us to do.
steen05
Your friends would like to swing with you and your husband and have told you this to test the water and see how you both react.
Ditto this
Yes, just say you are not swingers..............
..............Unless, you would like to broaden your sexual life with people who are close friends and who would also like to,...in which case, this would seem to be a perfect opportunity.....