November 2008 Weddings
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B-Jobs
I'm beyond bored this morning and was comparing notes with some of my girlfriends this weekend. There was a WIDE variety of answers! Also, explain your answer below because I'm bored and nosy.
(Also what do you consider a bjob? Is just going down on him enough to consider it a bjob... or do you only consider it a bjob if you finish him off? Does what you think differ from what he thinks?)
[Poll]
Re: B-Jobs
This.
TTC #1 13 cycles, CP 6/09, TTC #2 1 cycle
CDing, EP'd for 13 months for #1, BFing for #2
Pregnancy Hypertension - inductions at 39w, I grow big babies: DD was 9 pounds 1 ounce 22 inches, DS was 11 pounds even 22 inches - both vaginal deliveries
I consider it a BJ regardless of whether he finshes or not. If is d!ck is goin' in my mouth, I get credit for a BJ dammit. He only gets them on Steak and BJ Day.
I kid.....every once in a while is what I picked because that's probably how often it happens...maybe once a month. I get oral way more than I give it.
I chose once and week. I agree with desi, it's only a bj if he finishes otherwise it's foreplay (or if you stop all together it's mean and blueballs).
When DH and I were first together, we were young and waited quite a while before we had sex, so bjs were much more common: 3 - 5 times a week. Once we started having sex, they became much less common but still anywhere from 1 - 3 times a week depending.
It's a BJ if he finishes or not.
I picked once a week, almost every other time we have sexthere is a bJ involved in some part of the deed.
Agreed. And actually, that's the only way they happen around here. If he's to finish, he'll do in my hand, not my mouth.
It happens every once in a while, especially since we're not having sex too often right now. But I'm sure he'll be getting them more in the next 2 months.
He used to get them a TON when we first started dating...we didnt do the deed for the first 6 months of dating...so he got them a lot.
Now its like once every few months....
I am proud to say that I was once voted "BJ Queen" by my friends in college.
Unfortunately for DH, once you get married, you lose that title, so he gets them only once in awhile. Like when he picks up a Blizzard for me from DQ. Or kills wolf spiders.
Ditto this.
Also, I have an incredibly sensitive gag reflex (even before I was pregnant) so I picked almost never b/c I hate giving them. I'm a mean wife.
This. DH got them way more often before we got married, but not so much anymore. Sometimes before things get really hot and heavy, but not often.
My thoughts exactly.
First, I agree with Karrey - if it's in my mouth, it counts. He never finishes that way.
And Rachel - do you have a book, or a video tutorial? Us mere peons would love to learn from the BJ Queen!
I voted once in a while...and I DEFINITELY agree with Karrey and the other girls...If it's in my mouth I have given a BJ Dammit!!
Lately it's been less frequent just due to me being preggo and not being able to get comfortable to do it! He used to get them much more!
We shall see when Sadie comes!!
LOL!