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Confession

I felt I needed to do a seperate post for some reason

I have this awful fear that next Friday when I got for my ultrasound next Friday they are going to tell me something is wrong, I have no reason to feel this way. I am just a huge worrier. Or I also have a fear they are going to say ummm your not pregnant, you know that right? And I am going to be all like whhhaaat?

I just hate the I ruin things that should be so exciting but stressing about them and being anxious. Like don't get me wrong I am really excited but also really scared.

Just needed to get that out.

Oh and if you guys care I can call Paula (if you don't mind) and have her post next week because I probably won't be able to get on the computer for awhile after because it's in the city, etc. And I probably won't post on facebook till I tell all my friends and family. Otherwise I will post maybe the day after or something like that.

Re: Confession

  • I just want to give you a hug.  I've got nothing else, but take the pg test for your CW. LOL  Then at least you have the pg test showing you ARE in fact pg.  You know, other than the growing baby bump you've got going on. Wink
  • You better call Paula so she can tell us. 

    And everything is fine!  You have a baby in there! 

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  • It's natural to worry...especially after it being hard to conceive.  I'm sure things will be okay. 
    image Started TTC 11/07 BFP 09/24/08 Miscarriage 09/30/08 First cycle of clomid August 09 Second cycle of clomid September 09 BFP 09/30/09 Miscarriage 10/10/09 Three more rounds of clomid and no success Diagnosed with Unexplained Infertility Abnormal Bleeding for 3 months resulted in D&C but results were normal November 2010 100mg clomid but didn't respond December 2010 forced break for a cyst February 2011 150mg clomid but still no response March 2011 250mg clomid and responded! Ovidrel trigger shot and IUI on March 31 Beta #1 11dpo: 27 Beta #2 15dpo: 85 Beta #3 18dpo 276 Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • imageMrs.Graves5*19*07:
    It's natural to worry...especially after it being hard to conceive.  I'm sure things will be okay. 

    Thats exaclty it Elizabeth, it's like it took me so long to get here, it's hard to not expect the worst after getting so use to disapointment.

  • imageGreysGirl:

    imageMrs.Graves5*19*07:
    It's natural to worry...especially after it being hard to conceive.  I'm sure things will be okay. 

    Thats exaclty it Elizabeth, it's like it took me so long to get here, it's hard to not expect the worst after getting so use to disapointment.

    Just hang in there and try to think positive thoughts such as what ideas you have for the nursery, names, and other happy thoughts!

    image Started TTC 11/07 BFP 09/24/08 Miscarriage 09/30/08 First cycle of clomid August 09 Second cycle of clomid September 09 BFP 09/30/09 Miscarriage 10/10/09 Three more rounds of clomid and no success Diagnosed with Unexplained Infertility Abnormal Bleeding for 3 months resulted in D&C but results were normal November 2010 100mg clomid but didn't respond December 2010 forced break for a cyst February 2011 150mg clomid but still no response March 2011 250mg clomid and responded! Ovidrel trigger shot and IUI on March 31 Beta #1 11dpo: 27 Beta #2 15dpo: 85 Beta #3 18dpo 276 Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • imageGreysGirl:

    imageMrs.Graves5*19*07:
    It's natural to worry...especially after it being hard to conceive.  I'm sure things will be okay. 

    Thats exaclty it Elizabeth, it's like it took me so long to get here, it's hard to not expect the worst after getting so use to disapointment.

    I understand that, Jo.  I'd be the same way.

    I worry about you worrying so much. LOL  So let some of your friends and family take some of the worry for you... you know we're all thinking/praying for you.  It's SO HARD to have faith, though, I agree.  But that's what faith is. Tongue Tied

  • Joanna, can i email you somewhere or vice versa? I have had very similar fears and emotions and still do. I thought i was the only one with all this anxiety.
  • I have felt the same way before everything.single.appointment it's pretty normal.  Just try not to stress too much!  You are so close to being halfway there, I can't believe how fast it is going!
  • Thank you Paula xo, I worry about me worrying so much too lol. I vent to Jeremy and he really is a good support, but it's hard because he is so laid back so he doesn't really understand why I am so worried and anxious about everything. I wish I just get the negative thoughts out of my head.
  • Thank you girls, you are the best. Stacy I will email you now.
  • I've been there too, it's completely natural.

     TMI alert, but everytime I went to the bathroom I checked the tp for blood.  I was afraid, and it's completely natural. 

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  • imageMelanie051907:

    I've been there too, it's completely natural.

     TMI alert, but everytime I went to the bathroom I checked the tp for blood.  I was afraid, and it's completely natural. 

    I do this too Mel! I always turn on the lights when I use the bathroom in the middle of the night, it sucks because I always wake myself up but I feel the need to check.

    Thanks for making me feel less crazy girls.

  • imageGreysGirl:
    imageMelanie051907:

    I've been there too, it's completely natural.

     TMI alert, but everytime I went to the bathroom I checked the tp for blood.  I was afraid, and it's completely natural. 

    I do this too Mel! I always turn on the lights when I use the bathroom in the middle of the night, it sucks because I always wake myself up but I feel the need to check.

    Thanks for making me feel less crazy girls.

     I also did and still do that Mel & Jo. Especially after all the bleeding issues i had in the beginning.

  • I do this as well, and have only spotted once!!!
  • imageGreysGirl:
    Thank you Paula xo, I worry about me worrying so much too lol. I vent to Jeremy and he really is a good support, but it's hard because he is so laid back so he doesn't really understand why I am so worried and anxious about everything. I wish I just get the negative thoughts out of my head.

    You can call me anytime.. I now use my phone as my alarm clock so it's on 24/7.  I feel bad because I know there's nothing I can say/do to make it better and I'm sure Jeremy feels the same way - he ADORES you and wants you to be happy.  Unfortunately, there's nothing he - or anyone - can do to "fix" this. Sad  But if you ever want to just talk it out and not get anywhere but think the talking might be good, dial me up, baby. Wink  I'll even give you your own ringtone - just name it. LOL

  • Thank you Paula <3 Maybe baby got back?

  • imageGreysGirl:

    Thank you Paula <3 Maybe baby got back?

    If I find it and make it your ringtone, you have to swear you'll call. LOL

  • imagePaula051907:
    imageGreysGirl:

    Thank you Paula <3 Maybe baby got back?

    If I find it and make it your ringtone, you have to swear you'll call. LOL

    Of course I'll call!

  • Jo, I was the same way before each of my u/s and I had around 13. I thought for sure there would be something wrong in there. I think it is natural to worry. At this point you alone are responsible for this little life in there. It is very stressful. Guys don't get it. If they carried the babies they might. I am sure everything is fine. I can't wait to hear. I am going to put boy out there. Just my guess. Oh and I checked the TP all the time too.
  • imageMrs.Towny:
    Jo, I was the same way before each of my u/s and I had around 13. I thought for sure there would be something wrong in there. I think it is natural to worry. At this point you alone are responsible for this little life in there. It is very stressful. Guys don't get it. If they carried the babies they might. I am sure everything is fine. I can't wait to hear. I am going to put boy out there. Just my guess. Oh and I checked the TP all the time too.

    Thanks hun, your right guys can't completely comprehend it.

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