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Mutual Masturbation
Ok, so what's the deal with this? And by mutual masturbation I mean watching each other get off. Why is is that almost all guys want to watch woman masturbate but rarely will do it to themselves for us to watch?
Am I wrong here? I thought guys are all about showing off, but it seems they're kind of shy in this department.
Anyone else have this experience? My guy wants to watch me all the time, but then never does himself. 
Re: Mutual Masturbation
Have you ever asked him to do this? I think everyone is kind of shy at first about masturbating in front of someone else.
Yeah, DH is the same way.
I dont think it is almost ALL guys at all.
I've known a few men who have had no problem with it at all! If you want him to do it tell him to if he doesn't tell him you will no longer be doing it either!
Interesting! I've never thought to have my H do that infront of me...that's something I'd like to see. lol
ITA with Mags.
First off, "almost all guys" is usually a cop out that women use to excuse some behavior so they don't have to deal with the fact that their SO is a douche/asshat, etc.
Second, why would you continue to do something for him if he isn't willing to reciprocate? It's not like you want to impale him with a strap-on. And there is a good chance he is masturbating, just not when or where you can see him do it.