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Stuck in the middle
OMG my brother and sister have been fighting for the past month now. I really hate being stuck in the middle. My brother feels as though my parents are taking my sisters side, my sister is just a hysterical mess bc my brother and her used to be really close. I HATE, HATE, HATE being caught up in the middle.. everyone calls me to talk about it.. my mom, my dad, my sister and my brother and it makes me really upset bc we've never ever had any problems like this before.
The whole fight is stupid if you ask me...i couldn't even begin to say where it began.. something about my sister was supposed to come over but they never mad solid plans so when my sister didn't show up to my brothers house he got mad and it all downward spiraled from there.
I dont want to be caught up in the middle and i dont know how much more i can take of this and to top it all off...my nephew's (brothers son) birthday is in 2 weeks and i just know there is going to be more drama to deal with.
I guess i just dont take anything my brother says personally anymore.. i've always had to deal with him looking down on me since he's my big brother. my sister isn't used to it bc she's the older sister.
Re: Stuck in the middle
Tell your family your not getting involved and say I'm sorry thats to much stress for me right now. I would also say I'm not the middle man in this I'm sorry your grown up and they need to talk about it.