April 2008 Weddings
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I just got an invite to my cousin's wedding...

...on facebook.  Awesome!  little background:  She's 21 has 2 kids, 11 months a part, had the first when she was 19.  Her fiance/baby daddy is in the military (that is the excuse they give for not getting married sooner) but her parents, (my cousin is her dad-so I guess she is my 2nd cousin?) are paying for them to have a huge wedding.  It's in Wyoming so it won't cost as much as say a wedding in Denver, but they are inviting a few hundred people.  They can't even pay for their apartment without help from their parents and they are going to pay to have this huge/outrageous wedding.  It's ridiculous, I think her dress cost almost what my wedding cost.  I understand wanting her to have her dream wedding, but seriously when you already have 2 kids, one income (she's a stay at home mom) and can't afford to live without help from the parent's, maybe you don't need a huge wedding. 

Sorry for the vent, she has 3 sisters and a little brother at home and I think its a waste of money to spend that much on the wedding when they don't have money to send the other girls to college if they want. 

Re: I just got an invite to my cousin's wedding...

  • People are going to spend money however they deem appropriate.  It sounds like a sad situation to me though.  It's nice to have a big, fancy wedding, but there's nothing wrong with a simple, low key one either.  But not everyone understands that especially in this world of Bridezillas and Platinum Weddings.
  • I have to agree with you!  What a waste! 
  • I'm sorry but it cracks me up that they're throwing a big fancy wedding but sent invites out through FB. 

    I agree that's its a waste but PP Has a point that people will spend their money however they deem appropriate. 

    BabyFruit Ticker
  • Huge waste of money that she doesn't have. Wow. Completely irresponsible. Sad.

  • imageMarissaSF:

    I'm sorry but it cracks me up that they're throwing a big fancy wedding but sent invites out through FB. 

    I completely agree.  How tacky!!!! FB invite.  Pleaseee

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