April 2008 Weddings
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I'm really fustrated(vent)

b/c  a friend of mine and Dh's and she is currently pregnant, and every single time I log on to FB she is always asking questions about things what the  baby might need to all the moms. Its so fustrating b/c every single time I turn around someone is pregnant and I"m not. I"m very happy for all my friends that are expecting but it just hearing all these question and I want to say can you not call them and ask the questions instead of posting on FB all the d@mn time. I have got to the point of not wanting to  get on FB it really getting my more upset about what is going on with me.

Sometimes I feel like god is punshing for some reason. I"m sorry I'm a little down today. Maybe its just the weather.

 

Re: I'm really fustrated(vent)

  • ((extremely big hug)) I remember feeling exactly this way. It felt like everytime i turned around there was yet another facebook pregnant announcement or birth announcement. It can get really discouraging and I had a really hard time dealing with it...and DH had a really hard time understand why it upset me so much.

    It takes time and patience but i promise things will happen for you.  

  • I feel your pain.  My friends and family are on their 3rd and 4th kid.  They keep asking when are you having a baby?  Ummm I would if I could!!!!!!!! It isn't fair sometimes!  Hang in there.  It will happen for you!  Just think how you will feel the first time you hold the baby....it will be worth all this pain.  I know that doesn't help, but it will happen for you!!!!
  • Sorry hun. Can you put her on invisible or something?  I'm not on FB so I have no idea what its called but I know that there's a setting where you can block someone's FB updates so you don't see them unless you go to their page. No need to rub salt into the wound.
  • <<HUGS>> I remember being there too. :(

    I think it's a "hide" feature that you can turn on or off for the status updates from her...so you don't have to unfriend, but she gets pushed way down in priority.  

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  • It will happen when it's to happen don't lose your faith. God doesn't punish. You will get your baby.

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