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How to incorporate an outfit into the bedroom??
Ok me and SO had our DS about a month ago and we really havent had any alone time that isnt interrupted by baby cries so on v day my mom is taking DS over night so we can go out. Yesterday i bought a little sexy number for the bedroom cuz i want to have a real rocking night with my man but ive never done anything like this, how do you incorporate an outfit into the bedroom, like do i just come out in it and stand there lol?? Im clueless but i want to make it a night we wont forget (and tide him over till our next available sexy time)
Re: How to incorporate an outfit into the bedroom??
Sure! Just boogie right on out!
If he's into outfits, great. If he's just not an outfit kind of guy think about doing something else to spice it up.
Are you planning on having dinner first then sex time?
If so, wear the lingerie underneath your dinner clothes (or just skip to this next part). After dinner, make up an excuse for having to go outside to get something so you grab a big overcoat & have him clear the table. Discretely ditch your dress, add some f*ck me heels & put on the coat.
When you come back in (or pretend to come back in), you can surprise him by slowly taking off the coat to reveal just the lingerie & heels.
This!!!!
Excellent Idea!
I find that when I put something sexy on under my clothes, I feel that much sexier. It's a nice surprise when you let him undress you.
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While I know that many people that waiting for the Big Reveal until after dinner is the way to go, I personally hate to have sex on a full stomach. I would push your reservations to a later time and jump him before dinner. Once your mom has the baby, go upstairs to finish dressing and put on your outfit. Call him into the room and ask him if can help you with a zipper. When he comes in, look coyly down and say "Whoops! I don't have a zipper! Let me help you with yours."
Then go to dinner with a post-sex glow.
This can totally work, but it's best not to be cooking with something like shrimp that only needs to cook for a few minutes. I almost ruined dinner one night when DH decided to jump me at the stove. It is *so* not sexy to be fighting off your husband long enough to put things in the fridge or oven or whatever. So I vote for something that doesn't require constant supervision if you go this route.
The reveal works really well, too. DH has not yet complained if I meet him at the door in my robe and drop it to give him a nice surprise.
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That is hot...as a guy I would LOVE that! Trust me...we care more that you are making the effort to be sexy for us than how you look in it!!
Ooh I like that too!!