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Has anyone actually GBCA06ed?

You guys alluded to it below; did this actually happen? ?Lilm's still around, PGH is around, Tef is around, caden is just taking a bit of time for other reasons, right??

Aren't we all still here??

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Re: Has anyone actually GBCA06ed?

  • Nope, but I will not name them as it is not my place to do so.
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  • I'm definitely cutting back.  And I have a feeling that schit's about to hit the fan really soon here, so I'll do a temporary GB.  I don't know of anyone who's done a permanent one, but people have expressed disenchantment.  There are probably quite a few cutting back.
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  • Sibil, yours makes a lot of sense and isn't really a GBCA06/E08; you're moving and dealing with crap! ?I assume that's what our missing people have done.?

    But again, aside from caden, who is even missing?!?

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  • I have taken breaks from time to time. But left?

    Who has left and why?

    I don't post during the day so, it seems like I read about the drama later.

    Well, I will miss you all if everyone leaves.

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  • I've been having totally horrible days at work, and not posting a lot during the day either. ?People get busy. ?That's pretty much what I figured happened.
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  • I think what has happened over the past 2 days is a good indicator of the frustration/annoyance at what the board has become. 
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  • I think most of the our regular conservatives are gone. Or they are here lurking and occasionally posting, but if you haven't noticed, most of them just aren't participating in the political discussions anymore.  I asked a question about McCain's health care plan this morning on both boards and only Meganne answered.  I don't think there's an been any official exodus, but I think a lot of them are cutting back.

  • I actually have almost nothing to do until I get my paperwork.  Once that happens, pure chaos.  Until then, boredom.  I've done everything I can do to prep.  Now I just hurry up and wait.

    I think people are burned out on the election in general.  Couple that with the troll invasion and constant moving, and I'm not surprised that people aren't fighting to stay involved and are drifting away.

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  • imageTefLepOM:
    Nope, but I will not name them as it is not my place to do so.

    I don't understand this response?  No one has GBCN and I'm not going to name them?   

  • I'm feeling a little meh right now about both boards. I miss the old days. I can't even keep up with the drama anymore. And the drama now is very petty. I miss the political drama. People on both sides seem very touchy. There are some posters on the other board that suck the life out of it. And, frankly, E08 seems very ML. Someone (not an E08 reg....that I know of) told Blondiealigator (one of my least favorite posters) that she should jump off a bridge. Ack. I'm feeling a little worn out by it all. I have hope that things will improve after the election.
  • I don't bother getting involved in actual policy or value discussion anymore. ?There are too many new posters over there who don't care to hear my?explanations?and answers and would rather label me an ignorant, heartless, idiot. ?I am done casting my pearls before swine.
  • I don't spend much time at all on E08 anymore--I tend to agree with LMW in that it's very MLesque. I am sure there are some posts of value over there but there's too much crap to wade through. I still spend time over here, and while it's not terribly active and there aren't many political discussions, I think we could change that if we want to. We've all spent time complaining about how things are different, but what are we doing to fix it? I know we have fewer members over here, but when I first started posting on E08 over a year ago there weren't a ton of posters, and those were still the "good old days".

    Tef, you're one of the most vocal about not liking the way things have become. All I can suggest is that you stay above the fray and not stoop to anyone's level, if it bothers you so much.  Post meaningful posts and start threads about issues like you used to. We should ALL make an effort to do that.

  • imageEastSideFluffy:

    I think most of the our regular conservatives are gone. Or they are here lurking and occasionally posting, but if you haven't noticed, most of them just aren't participating in the political discussions anymore.  I asked a question about McCain's health care plan this morning on both boards and only Meganne answered.  I don't think there's an been any official exodus, but I think a lot of them are cutting back.

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    imageTefLepOM:
    Nope, but I will not name them as it is not my place to do so.

    I don't understand this response?  No one has GBCN and I'm not going to name them?   

    Sorry, it was late and that was not the best answer.  Nope was in response to everyone still being here in BB's initial post. 

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  • imageKatie_F:
    I don't bother getting involved in actual policy or value discussion anymore.  There are too many new posters over there who don't care to hear my explanations and answers and would rather label me an ignorant, heartless, idiot.  I am done casting my pearls before swine.

    Katie, I've enjoyed your posts on the Wall Street meltdown, though!  You've been the first to post a lot of information, and even when I haven't responded, I've read them.  I guess it's frustrating that only a few people read those sorts of posts on the new board, though. 

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  • imageBrookles:

    Tef, you're one of the most vocal about not liking the way things have become. All I can suggest is that you stay above the fray and not stoop to anyone's level, if it bothers you so much.  Post meaningful posts and start threads about issues like you used to. We should ALL make an effort to do that.

    You are right that I should stay above the fray, but it is near impossible now when being bombarded by constant snark (which then, for better or worse, brings it out in me as well) or the standard "what's the point?"   It has been written in by newbies and by regulars. How does one have an intelligent debate with that?  If you have learned (brookles or anyone), please let me know. 

    As for the conservatives going to lurkdom--I agree.  I became busy with my new responsibilities last week, but when I came home and saw all the bs, I lost interest.  I can only take so many repeat posts of the same thing and when a new topic is brought up against Obama or McCain, you are told you are an idiot (if you agree with McCain) or "what's the point?" or "that is out of Rove's playbook" (if you post something questioning Obama).  So, I moved over to a non-E08 board just to get my nest fill when time permitted.

    I am trying to make an effort, but then the board just reverts back for some reason.  I am doing my best to avoid posters that I disagree with (their tactics, that is).  I think many of our regulars need to do the same when it comes to one they do not care for, imo.  I think we all, myself included, can benefit from that.

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  • imageEastSideFluffy:

    I think most of the our regular conservatives are gone. Or they are here lurking and occasionally posting, but if you haven't noticed, most of them just aren't participating in the political discussions anymore.  I asked a question about McCain's health care plan this morning on both boards and only Meganne answered.  I don't think there's an been any official exodus, but I think a lot of them are cutting back.

    Whoops!  Sorry - I had started to respond, but then I had to run to a lunch meeting.  When I returned, I had lots of work to do, so I never got back to it.

    We should discuss, though. Smile

  • Oh, and yes, I know of one person who has GBCA06'ed, at least until Nov 5.

    Bunny, I responded to your facebook message - do you have the facebook ap on your phone?

  • I guess 2 people did actually GBCA06 in the traditional sense, but I don't think they ever posted a "GBCA06 post", which is usually the tradition in GBing, lol.

     

  • imagesugrfrejaz:

    I guess 2 people did actually GBCA06 in the traditional sense, but I don't think they ever posted a "GBCA06 post", which is usually the tradition in GBing, lol.

    Oh, I only know of 1... but people who actually post GBCN posts are doing so in order to be drama queens and burn bridges.  These people don't want to do that.  They just want to take a step back and not get so wrapped up in things.  kwim?

  • imagePgh-CTBride:
    imageEastSideFluffy:

    I think most of the our regular conservatives are gone. Or they are here lurking and occasionally posting, but if you haven't noticed, most of them just aren't participating in the political discussions anymore.  I asked a question about McCain's health care plan this morning on both boards and only Meganne answered.  I don't think there's an been any official exodus, but I think a lot of them are cutting back.

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  • This thread is soooo mysterious.

    Didn't we have a thread a long time ago where we agreed to announce it if we decided to GBCE08 so people didn't worry? So it wouldn't be AW-ish.

  • I know no one is talking about me, but I am barely here. I have no time to be on one message board with work being as crazy as its been...

     

    I've missed most of the dramaz. oh well. and I like dramaz.

  • imageBrookles:

    This thread is soooo mysterious.

    Didn't we have a thread a long time ago where we agreed to announce it if we decided to GBCE08 so people didn't worry? So it wouldn't be AW-ish.

    Oh, I took that to mean 'just let someone know so we don't think you're lying in a ditch somewhere'.

  • Yeah, that's what I thought, too.

    These mysterious people should take breaks if they need them and certainly don't owe us an explanation-- I've taken E08 breaks and come back much rejuvenated. It's just nice to know when people disappear.

  • imageEastSideFluffy:

    I think most of the our regular conservatives are gone. Or they are here lurking and occasionally posting, but if you haven't noticed, most of them just aren't participating in the political discussions anymore.  I asked a question about McCain's health care plan this morning on both boards and only Meganne answered.  I don't think there's an been any official exodus, but I think a lot of them are cutting back.

    This is exactly what I meant and noticed...

  • As a Indi voting GOP this time around, I think one of the biggest issues was Voldemort. I think she turned so many people against GOP voters that anyone who was also conservative felt uncomfortable posting.

    Then the personal slams started. And I think it went downhill from there. 

    I'm here and am happy to chime in when I am able or have the knowledge to respond. 

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