November 2008 Weddings
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Kinda bummed

To make a long story short, we've made the decision to put off TTC for the time-being. The game plan was to go back to the doctor in March to start low-level meds (we'll reach the one-year mark in March, and I don't ovulate - at least not regularly, if at all). I know no one is ready financially for children, but the thought of having nothing to rely on for 6+ weeks freaks us both out right now - especially since we're really tight on money right now (and we have to plan for extra b/c I have a stupid blood-clotting issue, that increases my risks of developing a clot, which increases my risk of miscarriage = blood thinning injection meds and I get to see a specialist b/c I'll be considered high-risk = a little extra money. I know its for the best, but it still sucks azz.

Sorry - way too long, but just feeling a little blue tonight.

Re: Kinda bummed

  • That's suck, but it sounds like you guys are being smart about it. However, being a responsible adult really blows sometimes. Hugs.
  • Im sorry . . . hopefully things will work out so you can get back in the game soon.  In the meantime . . .enjoy being a couple!
  • I agree that you are taking the responsible route in this and sometimes responsibility does blow especially when it means you have to be super patient too!  Hopefully it all works out though and the wait will go quicker than expected.
    Anniversary BabyFruit Ticker
  •  I know it sucks but just remember that you're being realistic and smart about your situation.  Doing this now will have you in a better position in the future.  Hang in there!
  • Very sorry that you're waiting, but you are doing the responsible thing-from the sounds of it... AND-like pp said-enjoy being a couple! 
  • imageLorelaiOctoberBride:
    Very sorry that you're waiting, but you are doing the responsible thing-from the sounds of it... AND-like pp said-enjoy being a couple! 

    Ditto. I'm sorry you have to wait, but it is for the best. Still poopy, though...

  • imageloregopar:

    imageLorelaiOctoberBride:
    Very sorry that you're waiting, but you are doing the responsible thing-from the sounds of it... AND-like pp said-enjoy being a couple! 

    Ditto. I'm sorry you have to wait, but it is for the best. Still poopy, though...

    Ditto.  And like pps said, sometimes it really sucks being a grown up.  There are so many times I just want to turn in my grown-up card.  But, in the end, know that you're making a responsible decision and will feel better about it as time goes on.

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • That stinks, sweetie! I'm sorry :(
  • Thanks ladies! I know its for the best, and I know the time will fly by (if I try not to think about it too much). And I know its for the best. I feel better about it today, but last night was a little more bummed than usual.
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