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I texted him.... idk why
Hey
I have no idea what made me do it... but i was sitting at work and just thinking about the whole situation with me and my DH. I decided that I needed to text him.
It was a really stupid thing to do since I knew it would prolly hurt me more when he didnt answer me 
I have no idea why I had expectations, I just set myself up for it i guess.
To make things worse I have been workining since 8 and I dont get a honkin lunch break bc a certain nurse is being a biotch.
Re: I texted him.... idk why
You texted him because his behavior is unpredictable and there was a possibility that he might respond. But I agree with your instincts...he may not respond or respond well at this time.
Also, I'm pretty sure not getting a lunch break is illegal. Take it up with HR. I don't know the law in Louisiana, but in California they have to pay you for an extra hour and pay the state a fine.
There is nothing wrong with you texting him, he IS your husband. And you want and need answers.
I was just wondering... you said he was at his cousins? Does his cousin have a wife and maybe you could get ahold of her and see what's going on? Just a thought....
Oh Vannakay! I would be a mess if I were in your shoes! I am sooo sorry this is going on!...
I would have text him-per pp, he is your husband and you deserve some answers... you really do!
Hugs to you and stay strong!!! And eat something! You do deserve a lunch.
I would just break down at work and start to cry...... But I know I was just setting myself up bc I figured he wouldnt answer me. All I said was that I needed him to know that I loved him....
His cousin isnt married....So I dont have a life line in VA. Im very close to my husbands aunt and he has been texting her, but with very short phrases or words. I miss him more than words could describe, but things just arent looking good.
Yes she is... He use to text her and call her all the time to check up on her and really hasnt done that since he left for VA. He called her when he landed and she had asked if he had talked to me and he told her that we had got into an arguement and that he was going to go on his trip, lock it in his brain and deal with it when he gets back.... That we would " talk" when he got home. But I think he was just sugar coating things for her......
Lorelai..... This is the hardest thing I have had to go thru and its breaking me down day by day. I wake up and realize everything is still happening and he isnt next to me. I dont want this to happen..... If it is possible my heart is breaking...
I mean last week before all of this happened he was texting me in spanish ( someone was tell him how to say it) He sent " love you forever and ever"
How the heck do you flip in less than a week?
Im just dont understand how you can just give up, forget about your wife, house, life?