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How many weddings have you been in?
s/o from a couple of the comments in the Friday confessional post. How many times have you been a BM, or stood up in a wedding in some way other than your own? (if we've already done this poll before, I apologize; I can't remember anymore)
Let's see, I think I've been in six now. I don't even want to think about how much money I've spent on all of them!
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Re: How many weddings have you been in?
MOH/Bridemaid - 0
(Note: I'm only 26 and the oldest of my friends - majority are not married.)
Flower Girl - 2
They're really thinking ahead, huh?
I've only been MOH once, and that was at the age of 22 when I knew less than nothing about weddings. I actually recently apologized to that friend for being a crappy MOH 
Well 1 is my sis, the other is my BFF, both of who are OBSESSED with getting engaged/rings/diamonds/blah blah.
Yikes!
2... one before I got married, and one after. I say this because the experience is so much different after you've experienced the first (and your own wedding)
One of my BMs is engaged, I was not asked to be her BM and in a lot of ways, I'm relieved.
2, with a 3rd in April.
One.. Alot of my friends aren't married yet...or dating haha
I called my friend who got married before me (when we were 25) and apologized probably once a week for things I think I said during her planning like "can't we just go barefoot to your wedding". I was finishing grad school & completely broke and she got married in WI. There wasn't much we could do for her in terms of helping, planning or even shower/ bachelorette party/
BM - 1 (I'm 24 and most of my friends aren't married yet)
FG/Jr BM - 4
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6
my own, 2 as matron of honor, 2 as a bridesmaid, 1 as a flower girl
I've been in 10 weddings so far (3 times as a flower girl, 7 times as a bridesmaid), and have been a MOH for two weddings that were eventually called-off. I'm also a bridesmaid in an upcoming wedding.
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2 - one as a junior BM for my aunt when I was little and one as a BM for one of my BMs the same year I got married.
I've probably got 3 more to go - my two sisters and my other BM. Although the BM is not a definite because she is pretty much a professional bridesmaid at this point and knows how much work and money it is and isn't sure if she wants to ask other people to do that for her.
Flower girl - 1
Bridesmaid - 3