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Change of plans

Sooo. Dh's Aunt just called and said that he is coming home TODAY!!!!! The airport called and needed to change the flight bc of a big snow storm coming to VA. They didnt want them to get stuck.....

Im having a MILD panic attack..... Shaking, hard to breathe..

Soooo not ready for this today, I thought I had to weekend!

Re: Change of plans

  • You can do this.

    Remember to breath.

    Remember that its HIM acting this way, dont let him turn this on you.

    No matter what the out come is, you WILL be OK

  • Well, at least you'll get to talk to him sooner and figure out what's going on.

    Deep breaths.  You'll be ok and we're all hear for you.

    Did you aunt say anything about the situation?  Does she know he's acting weird?

    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers
  • Agree completely w Agent...

    We're here for you---even if it's just to vent!

  • What Agent said... You can do this.
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  • Big deep breathes my dear.  And again, I am serious if I need to go to the airport and kick him in the knees.  Or any place else for that matter.  If you should need something over the weekend....shoot me a line or something on facebook.  I am only a couple hours away.  
  • I CANT do this..... I CANT do this..... I thought I had the weekend to figure everything out.

    Yes his aunt does think he is acting weird.... Then outta the blue he text her and says that he is coming home today bc of the expected snow storm. They are expecting like almost a foot of snow and he doesnt want to be stuck there bc he has work monday.

    Help!

  • This is acutally good news honey.  It means that his brain is at least partially functioning.  If he was doing drugs or truly trying to start a different life, he wouldn't care about coming home or going back to work.
  • imageKarrey31:
    This is acutally good news honey.  It means that his brain is at least partially functioning.  If he was doing drugs or truly trying to start a different life, he wouldn't care about coming home or going back to work.

    Im freaking the FLUCK out.......Plus to make my phone is dead and Idk if he has tried to call me....(Doubtful) But he has my Honkin work number.

    SH!T

  • imagevannakay:

    imageKarrey31:
    This is acutally good news honey.  It means that his brain is at least partially functioning.  If he was doing drugs or truly trying to start a different life, he wouldn't care about coming home or going back to work.

    Im freaking the FLUCK out.......Plus to make my phone is dead and Idk if he has tried to call me....(Doubtful) But he has my Honkin work number.

    SH!T

    It might be scary but you can do this. I promise you, you're strong enough.
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  • You can do it!  Be tough.  Remember that you are a strong woman and HE is in the wrong here.  This might sound dumb, but before he gets home go into the bathroom and look at yourself in the mirror.  Repeat out loud to yourself that you are strong and you can do this. 

    You never know how strong you are until you have to be.

    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers
  • Okay breathe!  I'm a rip the band-air off type of person so I think it will be better to get the talk over with.  Remember you are a very strong woman and you don't deserve this at all.  I'll be thinking of you and wishing you all the best!
  • I just really thought I had the weekend to prepare for everything...... Yea not so much anymore! ((heart beats out of chest))

     

    However... I must say that the King Cake a patient brought is easing the tension..I atleast got a bite.

     

     

  • You CAN do this.  Take some deep breaths.  You've been preparing yourself all week for this.  You are strong and you can handle this.
  • imagecode_8:
    You CAN do this.  Take some deep breaths.  You've been preparing yourself all week for this.  You are strong and you can handle this.

    I have been attempting at preparing for this..... but im NOT ready

  • nobody is ever truly prepared for the WTF is wrong with you talk.  Big Hugs sweetie, you will get through this.
  • Soo... I got my effin phone to turn on... and of course the SOB didnt text me and let me know he was coming home........ FLUCK that! ( pardon my french)
  • News:

    Sooo.... DH's aunt texted him

    Aunt: Have you called Savanna to tell her your coming home.

    DH: No, I havent and dont tell her either.

    Aunt. What? Why not?

    DH: No response

    Soooo...... Yea

  • Its going to be one of the most difficult things you do, but you CAN do it.  We're here to support you afterwards. Don't let him take your strength Savannah. You can do it.
  • I'm late to this - but you can do it - you are strong. We're here for you if you need to vent or for support.
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