November 2008 Weddings
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Still Numb...
Hey,
I just wanted to write and tell you thank you for everything. I guess Im no longer a Novembie anymore....
I am still very numb.. Im not doing much of anything but crying....
He hasnt tried calling,texting, or emailing me. My heart hearts more than words can describe. I dont know how he can just walk away from seven years. He wouldnt even talk to me in person, he doesnt want to see me.
Re: Still Numb...
He's a pu$sy. Sorry.
And of course you're still a Novembie!
I'm so sorry you're going through this, sweetie. He's a coward and you don't deserve that treatment.
Of course you're one of us. Don't worry about that, we're her for you
Vanna-
Only time can heal you at this point. I hope things get better and that you can eventually move on and let go. Oh, and you are always a Novembie no matter what happens.
This! We are still here if you need to talk.
I'm sorry, lady. Know that this is HIS fault, not yours. If he won't communicate, there's no way to save the relationship.
And since he's not interested in making your relationship work, I'd give him a hand and help him move out right away - by putting all his sh*t on the curb and hoping it rains.
This.
And you are a Novembie, regardless of what happens.
I'm terribly sorry this has happened - lots of hugs and prayers while you work through the next few days. Please know you can always come here for support as deal with this d-bag.
This exactly!! He knows if he sees you in person he will realize how much of a douchebag he is being!! I am so sorry you have to go through this!!
You are and will always be a Novembie!! we're here for you girl! Don't go away! Even though we don't all know each other IRL, we are here for each other ALWAYS!!!
BIG HUG TO YOU!!!
Ditto.
Hey sweety. Just remember we are always here for you and you will be a Novembie till the end just like the rest of us, NO MATTER WHAT!!
I am so sorry this has happend. He obviously knows that he's doing something stupid or he could face you like a man. This just goes to show that he is not a man. And trust me you deserve WAY better!!
If it was me I would totally send him some snarky texts or whatever saying "Oh, takin' the easy way out I see." But I'm just mean like that.
Just remember we're here for you!!
Thanks for your support.
Im trying my best to deal with this but it isnt working so well. All I seem to do is cry... and try to figure this out.
He left his truck at our house when he left for VA. I went home last night to check on our cats and his truck was gone. I could tell he had been in the house bc our oldest cat wasnt inside. Nothing was missing in the house. He didnt even take his damn workboots.
Just pray that I make it thru the day withough having a breakdown....