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Advice about a baby shower
I've been thinking about the situation with my cousins wives baby shower in a few weeks.
Last week I told my mom I wasn't going to go because my cousin who planned it (baby mama's MIL and cousin whom I think is a terrible person) was not inviting my other cousin C. I told my mom it was ridiculous that crazy cousin was holding a grudge that SHE created in the first place and that unless ALL family members were invited to family events I would not attend.
But now I'm thinking this isn't exactly fair to the new mommy to be....it's not her fault her MIL is a crazy biiitch. So now I am re-thinking that I should go because this is about the baby momma and not the crazy cousin but at the same time I am piiiiissed that my cousin is not invited.
Backstory is that crazy cousin is a drama queen and creates it all.the.time about EVERYTHING and now that my dead cousin is dead and good cousin would not give crazy cousin my dead cousins stuff, like a car that was in a will to my good cousin....crazy cousin has been mad ever since. She is crazy.
Re: Advice about a baby shower
I agree on the part of not faulting the person who is the recipient of the baby shower for the planners issues. Go for the person you are celebrating and forget the planners problems.
Yea I just talked to my mom who agreed with my new idea hahahaha although I knew it was right all along but my anger towards crazy is just out of hand this month hahahaha.
Buuuuuut I came up with an idea that involves good cousin and I going in on getting a gift
) My mom thinks it's a great idea because it shows my good cousin still being nice enough to gift the new mom a gift and it will piiiiss of my crazy cousin which is a nice added bonus. hahahaha