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I dont want to be at work......

I dont know how Im at work today.... All I have been doing is crying all honkin weekend. I have a new supervisor starting today....blah that makes things even worse. Plus, I have been at my moms since all this happened Friday night. I want to go back to my house but Im scared.

I just dont know what to say anymore.....

Re: I dont want to be at work......

  • Aww I'm sorry sweetie.  Anyway you could take some time off?  Although, it might be better for you to be at work and try and keep busy.  Big hugs to you.

  • Ugh.... I hate this.

    I really wish I had time off but I havent been here a year. Plus is he leaves me with the house I will have to pay the bills. I dont know how I will do this bc I dont really make that much.

  • I would go to YOUR house and wait for his sorry, no good, cowardly butt!!! And make him face me like a man. And just ask him in a calm voice "What happend while you were in VA", "What happend to NOT taking the easy way out." Just tell him you don't want to make him stay(even though you may) you just want to know what happend. Don't be scared of seeing him, You've known this man for 7 years.
  • Like I have no idea where he is staying, who he is staying with, When/If he is coming to get the rest of his things. I know NOTHING!

    I miss being at home, but I have never had to be by myself and I dont know anything but him. The reason I am scared is bc he might have that friend of his with him that I dont like..... She is his biggest cheerleader. I think she is some of the reason he is doing this.

    Im lucky I got the 5 text out of him that I did. He just kept saying he is done talking...... umm ok we hadnt even talked.

  • I would still go and just wait on him. And while you wait you can be putting his things where they are easy to get to, in the front yard.
  • Oh how I wish I could be soo strong but I cant. I rely on him more than anyone and he is the one letting me down.

    This is just mind boggeling Sierra....

    I have a fear that he is moving his things out right now. Idk why bc he is suppose to be at work. I could tell that he went home bc his truck was gone and he let the cat out.... But nothing else was gone.

  • I think being at work will be a good distraction.  Take some time for you to think about other stuff but what's going on at home.

    I think you should go home and throw his stuff out on the front lawn!  Then just take a picture and text it to him!  That would be awesome!!!

    Big hugs for you girl!  Keep on going you will make it through this!!

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    Like I have no idea where he is staying, who he is staying with, When/If he is coming to get the rest of his things. I know NOTHING!

    I miss being at home, but I have never had to be by myself and I dont know anything but him. The reason I am scared is bc he might have that friend of his with him that I dont like..... She is his biggest cheerleader. I think she is some of the reason he is doing this.

    Im lucky I got the 5 text out of him that I did. He just kept saying he is done talking...... umm ok we hadnt even talked.

    I always thought the friend was a guy!  If this is another woman encouraging him to do this I would have to guess there is something going on between the 2 of them and then you REALLY don't want anything to do with him!  Screw him!  I stick with my idea before...GO HOME...THROW HIS STUFF IN THE FRONT YARD...TAKE A PICTURE...AND TEXT IT TO HIM!!!!

    YOU CAN DO THIS!!!!  Be strong, you will be able to pick yourself up even if the one person you rely on lets you down!!

  • Well... It is is a guy (that I dont know) and the girl... I call her boobies and so do anyone that hangs around me. She is just nasty. Her boobs are always hanging out but they are not anything to show they sag down to her belly button. She sleeps around with people and she always wants to go out and drink.....I mean she isnt attractive.... I know looks arent everything.

  • As tempting as it might be to toss his stuff out, don't.  These things can be held against you later in the relationship or in legal proceedings.  You don't want to demonstrate wackiness that he can have recorded evidence of.  Believe me.  Things like this come into play.  No emotionally threatening voicemails.  No angry emails.  No acting out.  It will backfire. 
  • I'm so sorry to hear things are still terrible. I hope you can find the strength to make it through this. We are always here to help as much as possible.
  • I could never imagine this happening....He is just being sooo cold hearted. I would never expect this from him. You never know how hard something can be til you're stuck in the middle of it.

     

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