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Ok, I'm 33 years old and the only way I've ever had an orgasm is through oral sex. I've never had a vaginal orgasm and I'm not sure what I should be feeling, if it were to happen. Does it feel like you have to pee? I thought that was it but after we finish I really have to pee. So could someone please tell me what I'm suppose to feel when I'm having an orgasm. Should I not rush to go and us the restroom and see what happens or what? Please help!!!
Re: Orgasm
If you'd had one, you'd know.
FWIW, I can't O from vaginal intercourse or oral sex either. Sometimes I get the feeling I have to pee, but that's not an orgasm. A lot of women can't O from intercourse.
Ask him to use his fingers on your clitoris.
I can't O from intercourse either.
It sucks.
Dont worry youd know if you had a vaginal orgasm, it does not feel like you have to pee.
Try a few new things you could ask you man to wear a crown it constrics the blood flow to his penis wish usualy makes it bigger and him last longer, sometime what women are missing for a vaginal orgasm is a lil more time.
You could also try the We Vibe or We Vibe II , you wear it while having intercourse its a med size vibrator it stimulates both clitoral and vaginal.
Most important dont worry about it and have fun!
http://we-vibe.com/
Most women can't orgasm from just vaginal intercourse. You aren't abnormal in any way.
Have you tried touching your clitoris (or using a vibrator) during intercourse? Have you tried grinding your clitoris on his pelvic bone during woman-on-top intercourse? Have you tried one leg up, one leg under during man-on-top intercourse for additional clitoral stimulation?