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Super Bowl Party Help
My husband and I are HUGE football fans and we are hosting a Super Bowl party this weekend. We are having about 14 guests and I have spent a lot of time (and money) on our menu and decorations. Typically when our friends get together, we have a pitch in and everyone provides a dish. This time, I really wanted to actually HOST the party and told everyone not to worry about bringing anything. A few people have offered to bring dishes, but I let them know that everything has been taken care of.
I recently found out that one of our guests is planning on bringing a dish almost identical to one I will be serving. I am a bit frustrated because I have been really looking forward to playing hostess this time around and am quite proud of the spread I have put together. Is it unreasonable for me to be upset that she didn't ask me before planning on bringing a dish to the party? And is there a polite way I can let her know it is unnecessary? I think I may be overreacting a bit, but I was really looking forward to entertaining our friends. I know we will have a great time regardless. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks ladies!
Re: Super Bowl Party Help
Yes, I think you're overracting a little, particularly given the history of your group. After all, she's trying to be kind.
It's not that I wouldn't feel similarly, but I'd cancel my dish in order to help my guest feel comfortable.
Go Colts!
did you specifically tell this one friend not to bring anything? if so, that's really rude of her to ignore you.
that said, if she shows up with a dish (and i wouldn't mention it beforehand just in case she doesn't bring something) then i would be gracious and put hers out. right next to the version you made. hopefully she'd get the hint that you don't just show up to someone's gathering with food that hasn't been asked for, unless it really is a potlock event.
I think that you are totally over reacting. Accept your guests gift of food with grace and move on.