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My poor Friend

her husband kicked her and the kids out a 2 and 4 year on the street with today.

I feel so bad for her the kids.

Re: My poor Friend

  • If her name is on that title, she should go back with the kids and REFUSE to leave.  Call the authorities if she needs to.

    And if it's not on the title, go to a shelter and drain that jerk's accounts.

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  • That's what I have told her but bad thing is her husband is a cop.
  • call his sargent.  or chief or whatever it is.

    Cops are not above the law.

    Does she have a key?  Go back when he's at work and refuse to leave.  What's he going to do?  He touches her and she can claim assualt.

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  • im so sorry for your friend thats horrible! ugh i hope she figures something out!
  • What! That's awful. If that's her house too she's entitled to be there. If he doesn't want to be around them then he can get leave.

    And if her name is on that title I'd have her file a restraining order against him so that he can't come back to the house. Then I'd head straight for an attorney to file for divorce and have a temporary custody agreement put into place so she can take care of those kids.

  • imageElisa312:

    call his sargent.  or chief or whatever it is.

    Cops are not above the law.

    Does she have a key?  Go back when he's at work and refuse to leave.  What's he going to do?  He touches her and she can claim assualt.

    Oh yea she has a key. I'm scared for her I don't know what he will do probably hit her. He's the biggest A$$hole I have ever met.

  • Is she also in Athens? I found this Web site http://www.project-safe.org/index.php Maybe she should call them or someone like them. She needs to get to a safe place and start the proceedings to divorce this a$$hole. This story make me sick to my stomach and I hope the best for her and her kids!

     

  • I totally agree with everyone else, but I can't help myself...what was his "reason" to kick her out?
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  • imageImMrsMoses:
    I totally agree with everyone else, but I can't help myself...what was his "reason" to kick her out?

    This.  I dont know if I missed the story?

  • i'm interested in the backstory, too.

    but i do totally agree with both elisa and gerrie.

  • Background story: My  friend and her H married 5 years ago may I say a 20 and 21 is to young to get married and having a kids so young. They don't have a whole lot but her husband has kicked her out b/c the house was dirty ok you have to kids and its not going to be clean all the way. Her H doesn't even give her money she ask her family for money for gas and clothes.   

    She's not thinking right I'm begging her to get a job asap and she wanting to go back to college. I keep on reminding her this is the time get a freaking job. 

    This makes me sick I wish I could help her out in someway if I had all the money in world I find her a place to live and pay at least a few months rent for her and the kids.

  • He kicked her out because the house was dirty?!  He won't give her money for clothes and gas?!

    Aside from being a total @sshole, this guy sounds seriously controlling and unstable. 

    She should absolutely NOT go back to the house.  Help her find a place to stay.  If her name is on the title, they can work possession of the house during the divorce.  Keep her and the kids far away from him and give her all the emotional support you can.

     

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  • Agreed. I would totally call an organization that will help her and NOT go back to the house. Cop = gun. Threw her out = unstable. I don't trust this situation at all. No way would I have her go back to that house. If he's capable of being mean enough to throw her and his kids out on the street because  the house was dirty, he's capable of killing her. Please try to get her to call someone.

    http://www.usattorneylegalservices.com/women-shelters-georgia.html

     

  • Oh yea I'm going to have a big talk to her today about not going back to get her stuff maybe her brother and dad can go get if for her.

    I feel like this is going to very dirty.

  • Oh my gosh, that poor girl and kids!! Ugh, that pisses me off soooooo bad when cops do that sh!t bc a lot of time they don't get in trouble like regular civilians!!!
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