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Absolutely positively definitely pregnant. She isn't saying anything though, but she has visibly switched to maternity wear. I have walked by her cube while she was shopping for maternity clothes or baby supplies, but she minimizes the screen real fast. I know she is still smoking because I see her outside, so I wonder if she is hiding it because of that?
Anyway, do you say congrats yet? Or wait for the "official" announcement? And do I ever say anything about the smoking? Probably not, right?
Re: NER: my coworker is pg
Please do not not not say anything about it until she tells you. As someone who was recently (still is mostly) overweight and carries it in her stomach, I can't tell you how thankful I am no one verbalized any suspicions they may have had about me. Until you know 110% for sure (meaning, she's said) it's off limits. There's still the extremely remote possibility she's shopping for someone else and her plus sized clothes look like maternity.
I'd vote no on the smoking too. I've been told the guilting I give my mom and best friend about it do more harm than good.
Don't say anything on either front.
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Slightly related, its amazing to me how women think they're not visibly pregnant when they are. Every woman in my office that I've seen prior to her announcement of pregnancy, I've known was pregant. They look pregnant. I go along with secret, but it makes me laugh.?
Agree - don't say anything on either front!!
I also have a pg coworker who talks about her pregnancy constantly and told everyone she was pregnant before she was even 2 months along and she has had at least 2 prior miscarraiges!!!!!
I just scrolled down to find this post. You all basically confirmed what I was already thinking. I really like this girl and I want to be able to be excited for her out loud! I am sure she KNOWS what the deal with smoking is, so my saying something would probably just ruin our relationship. I don't get it, but I won't say anything. That being said, she always asks me for a cigarette because she isn't buying her own (hmmmm....wonder why) and I feel like an accomplice to something bad for some reason. Anyway, I am just rambling at this point. Thanks again for giving me some confirmation on this.