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Tell me about your toys

What toys do you have in the bedroom?

 

I currently don't have any toys, but am curious about vibrators.  It looks like a dildo may be the way to go - but I'm not sure DH would like that?  How do your DH's feel about that?

Re: Tell me about your toys

  • I've got a basic, nothing special/fancy vibrator and H doesn't mind at all.  He's used it on me and watches me use it.  You should get one and surprise your H with it one evening.  I bet he'd really enjoy it.
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  • I have a jack rabbit style toy that is absolutely awesome. I highly recommend it. FI likes it and thinks it's hot when I use it.

    We also have a vibrating c*ck ring that we sometimes use during sex which is also awesome. 


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  • i have a bag full of toys. Everything from basic dildos to the rabbit to the butt secks toys.
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  • Well, it really depends on the DH. Some are ok with dildos in general, others are only ok with them if they are used in interactive sex play where both partners are involved, some only like them when they are used for foreplay. It really just depends on the person. Also, what are you trying to get out of it? If you are a person who can orgasm via internal stimulation, a basic vibrator might be for you. If you require clitoral stimulation, you may want to think about a different toy. Honestly, we have owned about every toy known to man. From cheap $5 vibrating penis rings to $200 cordless rechargable Eroscolators, and in the end, we've ended up settling on the hand blown glass pieces. We've owned so many versions of the rabbit, which were great when we were inexperienced and young, but less enjoyable as we've gotten older. My best suggestion would be to find a more upscale adult boutique in your area (E.g. not one of those nasty places where folks areemerging from every little dark hallway) grab your husband and you guys go look at what you might be comfortable with. If you have concerns about him being comfortable, there is nothing better than envolving him in the process and creating a little anticipation and excitement from the trip together. Good luck!
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  • My DH loves it.  I have the original rabbit, a regular plastic vib, a vibrating butterfly c@ckring, and just yesterday i got a finger/waterproof vib.  plus we have the ky intense, which makes the orgasms even more intense.
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  • How about a strap on? Anyone own one?
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    How about a strap on? Anyone own one?

    What do you want to know?

  • I own a run of the mill, discreet vibey that me and SO like to use (him on me) and we have a vibrating *** ring that we haven't gotten much use out of. The concept sounded good, but its a bit awkward to use. Aside from that we've got a plethora of lubes, handcuffs and clit stimulators that we use from time to time.

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  • I've got a veritable toolkit of fun stuff.  Of course, I've been collecting since I was 18, so I've got a good run of things.

     

    One thing I always was curious about was where other people keep them.  Mine were always in the bedside drawer until they outgrew it an now they're in a bin under the bed.

  • We have a vibrating dildo that I bought for the year I was living halfway across the country by myself.  We've got one of the little bullet vibes and a vibrating c*ck ring that DH really likes.  We also have several lubes and massage oils, and we have a poker game where you bet sexual favors that's fun from time to time.
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  • We just use a little bullet.  I don't like dildo's so much any more.  I sort of got addicted to one once. It was like 9 inches and pretty thick and my b/f at the time was jealous of it.  Weird I know, but true.  I don't like that sensation so much any more.
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