April 2008 Weddings
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I caught myself almost opening the car door and rushing that little girl. Ohhhhhh my blood is still boiling.
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Let's get ready to rumble !!!!!
Yesterday DH and I had a radio put in his truck. So we dropped it off that
way we could go ahead and still do some running around.
On our way to pick it up we were going to Target, so I suggested we take Lo
to his moms house. We picked up the truck, and went to his moms house.
This is where things went to hell.
We were all in his moms bedroom, I don't know why we seem to hang out
there. Anyway she starts talking to Dh about not spending time with them, blah
blah blah (she's talking in spanish but i'm picking up bits and pieces). DH
goes on to say that he works 6 days a week ! And that we didn't go over there to
hear that. This broad has the nerve to say " Well you and Christina sure could
take off on vacation to San Antonio " Oh please ! SA is not a vacation !!! I'm
thinking to myself. So DH brother was carrying Lo and I turned to him, said its
time to go, before I saying something I shouldn't say. Then his sister says to
me as i'm walking out " Yeah you better leave, before I say something I
shouldn't say" Little trick what?!?!?! I tell you being a mother has
straightened me up because I would have turned right back around and got rowdy
with her. I didn't. Not with Lo in my arms.
So i'm sitting in my car and they bring it outside, DH is yelling at his
mom, and sister. I see them pointing at the car so I rolled down my window,
............................................ It is my fault that DH doesn't
spend time with them. The three years I have been there, it has been all my
fault that he doesnt spend time with them.
THEN. That little wench and her mother...... Called me a Biatch and a F'n
Biatch ?--- and you can take out the A.
So I yelled back to his sister your the one with 3 kids my 2 different
dads, By that time DH stepdad was hauling them back inside.
I caught myself almost opening the car door and rushing that little girl. Ohhhhhh my blood is still boiling.
DH is so done with them. He sent his sister a text message to consider him
dead to her. He reminded her of the support that we gave her when she needed to
tell her parents she was knocked up again.
I told Joe that is the last time I will EVER step foot in that house
again.
Whoa that got long. Coffee for everyone that finished that.
* Yikes * I don't know why that broke up like that, I typed it in email then copy and pasted.
Re: Let's get ready to rumble !!!!!
wwwhooooaaa thats some drama! how crappy for you to have to deal with that ish! I'm sorry! I probably wouldn't have been as controlled as you were.
You're a better person than I... I may have lost it and got in their face. How inappropriate: 1) to say those things about you 2) AROUND you and 3) with Lo there! She may not have understood words, but the tension that came from it.
I'm sorry, no one should ever have to go through something like that!! It's sad the family is like that. My aunt always said "Even if you don't like who the family member has brought home, hold your tongue, be cordial, be nice to their face. That's who your family member chose, that's who makes them happy. Just be happy they're happy"
I'm sorry, that it a very upsetting situation that no one should be in. Good for you for keeping yourself together.
I am so sorry that you have to deal with this. Do you think Joe will follow through with not seeing them?
I wouldn't want Loela to be exposed to that, either.
They're crazy! Have they ever considered that maybe that's why you don't hang out there?
Sorry you guys have to deal with that and good for you for holding your tongue. Taking the high road is usually not fun but it's the right thing to do. I'm so glad that at least you and Joe are on the same page and are standing as a united front. Try not to take things personally. You're a great person and they're just jealous that he moved on and up with you.
~~~MARRIED BIO~~~
Thanks girls ! Oh yeah and I forgot to tell y'all she was motioning for me to get out of the car ha ha. All high school.
wow. i really can't come up with any other words.
there's no need for that kind of drama in anyone's life.
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i can't even imagine what that would be like - how awful. don't they know that they won't see Lo or Joe after behaving that way???
TJ's brother complains SO much that we live in florida (less drama filled than this, by far though). TJ finally said, "Dude, if you want to see me, stop making every trip so awful with the fighting and complaining. you make it so that we don't even want to come." its been better, though we still get it a bunch.
they need serious help.
That's WAY out of line- you're fantastic!
::hugs::